SLOW DOWN-Just Breathe

        Good Morning--above---a picture of Lopez on my leather chair--He thinks it is his--and the sad part is, it sorta has become "his"-------

To-day is Sunday, October 25th---and it is just daylight here  now--just after 8am--- looks so pretty outside-Of course, we are up--well, not Sushi ----The washing is done--must be folded, and put away--

I must tell you that I  attended a "Grief Session" at a Lodge, north of here--and the whole day  was amazing--  about 50 women attended--  We stayed for lunch--had a yoga session--went on a memory walk thru the forest--and returned  back to "Elliot Lake" after 4pm--Tim had come to take Lopez out  in town here--and, yes, that day really helped me to relax and get on with my day  -live without a partner-to slow down--and carry on-----alone--- with my new life  -in my tiny home  -       

                                

                                So-Words I wish I had written----

                        #1.Do not be a mouse or the cat will eat you.

                        #2.Life is 10 pet cent what happens to you and 90 per                                     cent how you react to it.

                        #3.Fear plays a big part in our lives.

                        #4.Don't do anything that conflicts with common sense.

                                        Blasts from the Past--

            6 Grandchildren having tea in  the garden--long ago--above

                                Ava-Andie--with Emma-cousins-

                    Above----and-there they are--again!

                and again-- with Jacob and Sophia--their cousins

and here are their parents--many moons ago -Son#2 holding Timmy

                Life passes so quickly--grab each day and live it, to it's fullest--Your children are your best life--Tell them you love  them         to the moon and back---Remember your pets---walk them--talk to them---make their day special---Love snd work are two of the most important ingredients of a happy life.--

                            Oh-and big huge hugs to you all!

 

How You Doin?

Good Morning----To-day is Saturday, October 24th---It is very dark outside --still---but--  we are "up and at-er" here--Lopez and I--

I decided not to  go out --up to Laurentian Lodge , to-day,--for a "memory walk"--It was planned for to-day--I think, with the "Macular Trip" again to Sudbury--again soon, I think it is too much to leave Lopez alone here in the tiny house.----Too bad, but I was recently sick too, so it is probably better to stay home to-day--I just feel it in my bones--

                        So---Words I wish I had written--

#1.Do what matters most at the time

#2.If you know nothing, say nothing.

#3.He who laughs, lasts.

#4. Sometimes things that hurt, teach.

                            and---  Blasts from the Past
 

Below--  Fred with Jacob

                                                    Below--2 dogs in the snow

 

Jacob wanting to play football

Jacob and his sister --getting ready for Halloween

another Birthday for Fred

Charlee and me--

Time to get on with this day--It is still dark  out there--I hope that your day is  good--Remember--time flies when you are having fun--Love the way you want to be loved--You only  live once--Tell your children that  you love them--even tell your pets--and when you're angry , count to ten-----oh--and of course, big hugs to you--

Never give up.

 Good Morning  --To-day is Friday, October 23rd-- Very dark still outside--2 degrees  my phone says, outside here, right now--seems cold- Of course the wee stove is on--then off--

The clothes  are chugging away in the dryer right now--and Lopez asleep on my sofa-This AM I am going to meet Dave at 9-30 am---for breakfast--which means Lopez must be walked before that--There is always lots to do in the early mornings--

                                

                                Words I wish I had written---

#1.The best advice is, don't give it.

#2.A wise person knows that she cannot know everything.

#3.Better ask twice than lose your way once.

4.Hold your child's hand every chance you get.

#5. It never hurts to be polite.

                                Blasts from the past

                                        Allison's son Jacob, below

                    Sophia and Jacob--  It must be Halloween

                                a Birthday for Fred-below

                        Fred helping Eathan with something

                        Below--a bunch of Grandchildren on the dock

                                Son#2 with Hannah, his daughter
Andrew, Phil, Karen Chin,Fred's sisters daughter -Me, Fred and Tim

Time to get off of here--fold the laundry--turn up the heat--get Lopez out----almost daylight---  Remember to hug those pets--tell your children that they are special, and that you love them to the moon snd back--try to be kind in all you do and say--thank yer husband  for working to support your family--and do be happy--try to be--oh--and---                            Count to ten before you get angry--

                                    Big Hugs to you all--

                                and--NEVER GIVE UP!

Another day, another dollar-

Good morning--Dark outside--Maybe , get dressed--get your clothes on, and it won't be so cold--LOL----(just teasing)--but, it sure is dark out there,  right now.--Son#2 just called--said the same thing-- "It is dark outside!"----dark inside too--Lopez and I are up tho--hard to put those feet on the floor, when it feels like winter--(well sorta-)

So, to-day is October the 22nd--20 degrees out there, I hear--(the TV just said that)----The wash is done--must go into the dryer--A new day has just begun--

                                Words I wish I had written--

#1. A sleeping cat cannot catch a mouse.

#2.Life can be so complicated and busy that sometimes 

    we forget to live.  

#3.You control yourself

#4.Imagine what you'd attempt to do if you knew you couldn't fail,             then do it.                                                                                       

                            and, Blasts from the past

                                                Hey--It is me---

                            Looks like a cockpit--It is!!!

                                and Lopez-on his leather chair--

                    and the dock--where we spent so much of our time--

                        Maybe they see a turtle--(cousins)-

                Days on "the dock"--always lotza dogs-and Grandkids--

So---another day has begun-- and here we are---Think of ways to improve your life--Remember that you cannot have everything--Where would you put it?- Tell your children that you love them to the moon and back-_walk those pets--and wrap your arms around them also--They live for you-

-The only things left after you die are the good deeds that you performed--and, of course, big hugs to you all--Remember that--YOU CAN!

 

Good Morning Sunshine--

 

Good Morning---To-day is a brand new day--and we are a part of it--

                            Wednesday, October 21st--dark still-- 

Lopez and I are up--The wash machine is chugging away behind me--I think it must be cold outside--I just feel it--The floor is cold--I was talking to my sisters grown son yesterday, who told me that his Mom, (my older sister) had "Macular" in her eyes--same as me--which, I guess we both  inherited from my Mom--When My Mom was alive, there was no treatment for her  Macular--and she went completely blind.--So, the good news now, is that there now is treatment, which does not cure it, but will save your sight for a bit longer--and, according to her son, there are new treatments now on the horizon--so, I guess there is always hope!

                                Words I wish I had written

#1.You can't try to do things-you simply must do things--

#2. Believe the best of everybody.

#3.Vote in every election.

#4.Don't be critical of your spouses friends.

#5.Don't make a date for anything more than a month in advance.

                            and--Blasts from the past

Below--Son#2---Allison, and their Dad

                Below--boy oh boy--The whole "HERD" of us!

        Looks like "Ba-HA"---  Fred-with another Birthday--Below

                    and there he is again--many years ago--

                                    Many years later--  Fred, below

                                and--look what happened---below

So--Time to get moving here---I hope to get out and pick up some groceries to-day--Remember, there is no such thing as too much common sense--Listen to your brain and take the bad with the good--and hug your children--walk those pets--Kindness brings happiness--

oh----and----Try to-keep your soul young--0h----and big hugs to you all-

 

You can---

Good morning-- to-day is Tuesday, the 20th of October--I have been up for a couple hours here, but busy with washing--  the dryer--Lopez--- Sushi--  Phone calls from Allison and Son#2--Incidentally, the TV--CBC-- tells me that Alberta voted to stay in Canada---- That is good! - I hear that Trump was chomping at the bit  to take over Alberta, probably because of their oil-----so much craziness  everyday--

So, I see it is daylight , finally, outside--and I am feeling better-- I have had some sort of terrible flu--coughing  all the time--and coughing up so much  thick mucous--which is getting a lot better now, after what seems like a lot of meds--antibiotics--  The whole horrible virus was in my chest, and seems a bit better  now--but I feel like I have been thru the ringer--(Mom used to say that)---So---

                                Words I wish I had written--

#1.Keep track of your life by writing in a journal--

#2.You cannot love a pet too much.

#3.Let no-one see you in a hurry.

#4.If you think you cannot, then you will not.

                                Blasts From The Past

-----------such a beautiful calm day, on the dock--

above-- Lopez resting on my leather sofa

            Holy Cow --It is "me"--when my husband was alive--

                        Early morning fog over the lake--on Dunlop

Below---  Son#4 , his daughter, and Son#2

Cousins --with Charlee

I must get Lopez out-- then  a trip to town-- Always so much to do--How is your day going?--Are you "happy and you know it?"

(Mom's expression)--

Family stories keep families alive-(remember that!)--Also  remember to talk to your pets--(No-one else does)----Love your children ---tell them you love them to the moon and back----and your husband also--

Oh----  and BIG huge Hugs to you all--Now get going--

 

Never, never, never give up-------

I am up but it was hard to put the feet onto the floor--so dark----and kinda cold in here--to-day is Monday, October 19th---about 5-30am--Lopez and I are up--Sushi still fast asleep upstairs---- Of course, the wash  is in. I hear the washer  chugging away  in the kitchen, behind me--

                            Words I wish I had written--below---

                            #1. Welcome change

                            #2.He who looks behind will never get ahead.

                            #3.Get up and go.

                            #4.Do not think small.

                            #5.Dump your unwanted baggage

                                   and--Blasts from the past

                                Our grown children-below

                            Beau with his Ball on the Dock, below

            Son#2 , the Pilot, with his wife and Gerrard, their son

                                on the way to the dock below

                        Below--Allison with her 2 children

I must keep moving on here--a brand new day--ahead of us-I think I am over that flu---on the last of the meds--Did any of you get that flu bug?--It kinds zaps your energy--So, remember----

I hope your day will be special in every way-Never , never, never, give up--Keep your children close--It is harder than we remember to be a child--love them to the moon sand back--and never forget to talk to your pets--Enjoy this day-It only comes once.--oh------and---------

                            BIG HUGS TO  YOU ALL!