Be the Very Best of YOU!

 It is Tuesday, October the 6th--dark outside--was minus 2C outside, over night.--COLD!!!! I am late getting up--did not want to climb out of that warm bed!--I had to wake up Lopez--Sushi still in bed--lucky her!---  The wash is ready to throw into the dryer--and, it is garbage day-so that must be dragged to the road--with the recyclables--"containers" this week--As Mom used to say, "A woman's work is never done."---

                            so--"Words I wish I had written.

#1.Without health, no-one is rich.

#2.Reach down and lift people up.

#3.When in doubt. do nothing.

#4.Spoil your partner, not your children.

#5.Do not let the sun go down on a quarrel.

                            and--Blasts from the Past.

                above-- These children look pretty happy!-cousins

                    cousins---Looks like, Santa Claus came to town--

        Oh my goodness!--I think it is all of us in the picture below

Andrew is missing in the picture below--Son#2, Fred ,Son#3 and                                                                     Son#4

                Cousins below-- posing for the camera

Well enough-- So, how are you all?--a new day-- It is not snowing--"YET"--We are alive--I found out one can have "Macular"---in our eyes and still see--Life is good!   -'specially if we are strong--and try really  hard to be that way--So, "be thankful for small mercies!"--Mom used to say that--

Now, hug each of your children--Tell them how special they are--  Talk to the dog -even the cat--and love your husband to the moon and back--We are alive!-- Oh-h-hh--hh--Big hugs to you --everyone of you!

LIFE REQUIRES THAT WE TRY OUR BEST..

To-day is Monday, September the 5th--I am heading into Sudbury , to go to the Eye Dr., there -- (about a 2 hr drive)-and I have a Driver coming here  about 11am--for the "macular" in my eyes---my appointment  at  3-30pm--Son #3 will be here (I hope) to let Lopez out and in--and out and in--until I return.--The whole thing seems like a scare-y day ahead--but--as it says above, I shall try my best.

It is daylight  now outside--the wee furnace is on  in the living room--  freezing cold in here still tho----The clothes now in the dryer turning round and round---so, my poor blog might be shorter than usual--

                   

                    Anyway, words I wish I had written---

                    #1.The key to freedom is in your mind.

                    #2.Own each day.

                    #3.Children act in the village as they have learned at                                      home.

                    #4.Keep your sense of wonder.

                            and, below-- Blasts from the past    

                            Son #2's family ,    one Christmas

                        Below-- a bunch of happy people--

                            I think  this Lady  below is me!

                        Below--Me  with 3 Grandchildren

                            

                        and there is Fred --below--with Ava

                                and there we are--together-

                                    Phil and Allison --below

Time to get on with  to-day--With a lot of luck, I should come home with new eyes--Meanwhile, you must get on with your day--I see the sun  coming over the fence on the back yard--Make your day special--  Hug your children as they head out out to school--You know that you love them to the moon and back--talk to your pets--sing to them even--They need your love--Try your best to make to-day the very best day ever!-------oh my goodness---and a very big hug to "YOU"!!!

 

Good Morning Beautiful!

It is Sunday, October the 4th--my Dad's Birthday-dark as "the ace of spades" outside---(Mom's expression)_The heat is turned up--the windows closed--and I am going back up go bed! --Lord love a Duck--Lopez , and Sushi are still asleep upstairs and I am going back up there also--and crawl into  that warm bed--for now--Remember -----

                            I see we have rain--(I am up again!)

-  kinda cool also-The  wash is in the dryer--Son #2 is now en route from Britain--returning to Toronto--just called me--

                           

                     So---Words I wish I had written--

#1.Remember that children do not think like Adults.

#2.Create an unhurried morning routine.

#3. A big head means a big headache.

#4.You can feel lonely even if you are not alone.

                            Below--Blasts from the past

                            Grand kids acting silly--below

                                            Son#2 and wife 

                                Allison's 2 children-below

                                    

                Son#2 doing something--  Gerrard , his dog  in front--

        Below--our famous kitchen-Fred and I, plus hungry kids

                                        Son #1and Son#2

Time to get on with this day--Remember to be kind to the unkind--  Hug your children ---Tell them they are wonderful people--and talk to those pets of yours--just because they cannot talk back, does not mean that they are  not taking the greatest care of you all--They love you to the Moon--and, even back--and---Do not think that there are no crocodiles because the water is calm--and do enjoy the life you are given--- oh---and----                    BIG HUGS TO YOU ALL__

 

It's a good day to have a good day.

Good Morning--  To-day is Saturday, October 3rd--dark outside--and feels cold-- inside --My phone says 2  degrees outside, right now--COLD!--I have the wee heater turned up--  Lopez and I are down here--Sushi buried under the covers,  upstairs in my big bed--I must get the washer going--

Son#2 is in Britain  --landed in the night, so must be sleeping now---He enjoys going there as he visits his wife's brother who lives there.

                        So, words I wish I had written--

#1.Ask your heart what actions to take.

#2.Nothing worth having can be purchased.

#3.Do not let the sun go down on a quarrel.

#4.If you think about it too much, you will never do it.

#5.Life is what we make it.

                        and--Blasts from the past--

                                        Fred with Son#2--

                            an airport somewhere  in Canada

                                                Sushi

                                            and--"Me"

                                    Cousins on the stairs

                                a pile of people on the dock

                                Must be Ava's Birthday
So, are you happy this morning?--We used to say, "If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands--"--Music is good for you whether you are happy or sad--Our prime purpose in life is to help others--Live so that your children know you are fair, caring and full of integrity---and bestow so much love upon each one, plus your pets--We only go thru this life once , and  so we must do it right the first time--- Lordy be, it takes great strength, doesn't it, to  be happy and keep our family happy also.

                Have a great day----make it a great day!-oh-----and---

                                        Big hugs to you all!

     

 

Good Morning Sunshine!

It is almost daylight --The fire is on--so we have heat--and--WE ARE UP--Lopez is in the kitchen eating breakfast--Sushi still on my bed upstairs-The wash is in the dryer twirling around--Oh , I nearly forgot--To-day is Friday, October 2nd--a new month--and --yes, it feels like "Fall" outside-- and in here!--and--  I have "macular Degeneration-"-I guess--will know this week, for sure----as I will be going to see the Eye specialist. in Sudbury -on the 5th---  Son #1's Father-in-law---is going to drive me----Lord love a Duck eh??--

                                

                                Words I wish I had written--

                #1.Do not be a mouse or the cat will eat you--

                #2.It is easy to live a bad life.

                #3.Endure pain with dignity.

                #4.Be kind to the unkind.

              

                            and---Blasts from the past--

                            Below--  My oldest brother and wife--

                        Below--  we were blueberry picking

                                Below--lunch at Grammas

                            

                       above--a very old family photo

Dunlop Lake--our dock in the middle

below--cousins

Time to get on with our day--all of us!!

I see the sun is out----It is looking like it will be a cool day but  a good day--"It WILL BE A GOOD DAY IF WE MAKE IT THAT WAY_"Just so yu know--=next week I do go to the Eye specialist --Dr Kent, --in Sudbury,  to see if she can help me with the Macular" in my eyes-_

So--  Love your children to the moon and back--Big Hugs--Talk to your pets-- They love to hear your voice--Tell them you love them--and when you are angry, count to ten--ohhhhh--and----------

- BIG HUGS  to "YOU"

                                                                                                                   

 

Stay Strong!

 Good rainy morning--  still a bit dark outside--  and I see rain falling--Lopez and I are up--in fact-- downstairs here--and guess what?-- To-day is Thursday, October the 1st--a brand new month!-It os still darkish outside--misty--  wet--and I think I see rain falling--Lucky Sushi, still upstairs on my bed---

There! That is exactly what it looks like!--WET!!

So, I have bad news-- --well, it could be worse --so, it is not SOOooo

bad--but--  sad news I guess---  I'll tell you really fast--You know my Mom had "Macular Degeneration-"-died when she was blind--blind blind---and------yesterday, I found out---  I HAVE IT TOO!--I was told a year ago, at an Optician--that I had it--but--I NEVER BELIEVED THEM--so did absolutely nothing about it--a year ago that was--a whole year ago--It has not affected my vision--yet------but will--in time--like soon, I suspect!--So, on the 5th, (soon)--I am off to Sudbury to see Dr Kent, and they will do whatever they have to do-- Andrew's wife's Dad is going to drive me--Lord love a Duck eh??-I kinda knew this was going to happen--could feel in my bones--

Anyway , life must go on--  so---

Words I wish I had written--

#1.Hope can be the best medicine

        #2.The best advice is, do not give up.

            #3.You can be happy if you want to be.

                            #4. Even if you do something ridiculous, outrageous, or stupid, do it with enthusiasm

and--Blasts from the Past Below--

Cousins--

above--  We always had 2 Shepherds-

Such a sweet Charlee

Lolling on the dock--below

Below--Dock Fun!

Time to get off of here--Lopez must go out--in the rain--must meet Dave at 9-30am--Remember to love your family --hug your children-- talk to your Pets and love them to the moon and back--All our dreams can come rue if we have the courage to pursue them.

Get your ":SHIT" --your stuff--together-

 Good Morning--To-day is  Wednesday, September 30th-7am---VERY dark outside  still-and seems cold, even in my tiny house--The washer is chugging away here behind me--The cat needs to be fed-her water is changed-- Lopez is down here with me but  has snuck over to my sofa from his  wee bed--He thinks I do not see him on my sofa--  Lordy Be!

So yesterday , because I cannot get in to see my own Dr., till Nov.11th, I went to an "eye" specialist, who examined my eyes and confirmed that I have the "macular" thing--  called a specialist in Sudbury to get me an appointment for the Macular   surgery-- marked it an "EMERGENCY"----so, here I sit , hoping that I can see that specialist--and sooner than later---  such a "smosh" isn't it??--Fred would be freaking out--Hopefully things will work out -- must just take time--

                Anyway, Words I wish I had written below--

#1. When you fight with a brother or sister, you are hurting yourself,             because he or she, is part of you.

#2. A good education makes a difference.

#3.Be good to others.

#4.Famous people are not necessarily good people.

                    and--Blasts from the past!

                Below---  This must've been sent from Son#2

Above-Timmy with Lisa his sister in law

Below--Fred with Son #4

Below--Sob#2 with Gerrard

Below--Allison with her daughter

It must've ben someone's Birthday--

So, if you are happy and you know it, clap your hands--It is going to be a good day--I just feel it will be!So, get off of here---after leaving a few comments would be nice--and get this day into action!---- Oh--Don't forget to tell your children how wonderful each of them are --They really are special!--Hug  your pets--Oh---and don't consent to creep when you feel an impulse to soar--oh---and of course--BIG HUGS TO YOU ALL!