Lakeside Lady
Friday, April 3, 2026
BE STRONG--with "add ons""
Thursday, April 2, 2026
NEVER GIVE UP!
So, yesterday Son#1's wife, and I went to the place where they give driving tests--The man working there was ever so nice--told me that I must get my Dr. and soon too, to inform the Ministry of all the moves I have had--Three moves in a short space of time, plus my husband dying--and as he said, that would make anyone lose their memory--and my Dr should inform the ministry-- He really was a good man-- But, nothing is happening --- still!---
Blasts from the Past--
Below is our daughters 2 children--Sophia and Jacob
Sophia will attend Kent state in Ohio this fall.
Below--Dock Days--- Did you ever see so many people on a dock?? Sushi and I below--an old picture--
Wednesday, April 1, 2026
AGAIN____Life is what you make it!
Good Morning--It is Wednesday April the 1st-----sunshine--and, lollipops maybe--"April Fools Day" is what we used to call to-day--and then we would say to Dad--- "Look, there is a mouse crawling up the wall--", and when Dad would look up, we would bend over, laughing and laughing--"April Fools Day-"------
If we were at Grampa's house, in Port Perry, Grampa would always play that "Mouse Game"------APRIL----the beginning of summer-----Usually the Humming Birds return soon around this day----fly around the kitchen window , looking for their feeders--What on earth will they do this year as I am not there to fill their feeders--????
Tuesday, March 31, 2026
Life is what you make it!
Good Morning--It is Tuesday, March 31st-----windy outside--wet--raining sorta--freezing rain predicted for this area- not warm and "summer-y"--yet-----but--- I believe summer is getting closer in this Northern area--I hope!!----Positive thoughts--It has to be "SPRING" here soon--just has to be---- because it will be APRIL to-morrow-- and April showers bring May flowers--and----that happens in "SPRING"---So, how are "YOU"??? How is your day going?? Are you happy and you know it??---I hope so--"Hold down the fort-"--My Mom used to say that.---I know--It is easy to "hold the fort" when it is not attacked.--Now---
WISE WORDS
#1.-Resisting change has a steep price
#2.Do not end up where you think you do not belong--
#3. Life is what you make it.
above-a very old family photo Above-Fred and I a more recent picture-- We are all older --wiser-- larger with more Grand children --So-- Everyday is a challenge right now-- but--- Everything worth having is worth working for-I know that----so, I hope--Earnest effort will lead to success--Find solutions to life's puzzles--which I hope will lead to success---life just goes on --and on--and-remember to face adversity with a smile--So much advice eh??---
Remember--There are 3 types of people--those with wishbones, those with funny bones, and those with back bones-----just look below, at what nature gives us!
Monday, March 30, 2026
Do not take life too seriously-
And the massive bed is being changed to-day, so I can hear the washer chugging away --seems like there is never a dull moment around here--Lopez has been out--funny--he checks the patio door after I put him in the yard--- looks to see if I am still watching him----
And, we have sunshine--and I think those very cold temperatures have come up-------------
"Blasts from the past"--below-- Allison, with Jacob, her son--somewhere in Ohio--
Below--- a view from our deck, when we lived on Dunlop Lake-- Below--Son #2, the Pilot, with Ethan,#1.--Let go of the "what-ifs"--
#2.Nothing worth having can be purchased.
#3.Being totally alone, at times, can be very healthy.
Below-- Fred, myself and my brother--one year younger
Sunday, March 29, 2026
Kinda a big mess--frustrating--
Saturday, March 28, 2026
Should I face the music??
Well, everyday--There are changes----and as one ages--even more changes---and, it seems one must just figure it all out--But--just look at the above picture-- children--very happy--not a care in their world--and here I am, all worried--trying to figure out my purpose in life-- trying to figure out a place to live--with PEOPLE close by--
So, I am considering a big move--Crazy eh??-- a more inclusive place to live-- a building with meals provided--- transportation provided to stores etc--- more costly of course--but, I would not be as lonely as I am here--no memory test to have to do , to keep my car--probably would get rid of the vehicle--It is something to consider--and--- as I am already "over that hill"--I certainly will never be any younger--so---- maybe it is time to move to a place with meals provided--trips that would take me places--(I would not need a car)----This fantom place does exist--at a price--- and it might take all the pressure off me having to visit the doctor here who insists I conform and do stuff he tells me-- You see, I will never be any younger-- but --I just might get more enjoyment out of living in a Seniors centre where senior citizens are respected-- catered to a bit --(at a cost)--no more memory tests---
What do you think??--It means another move , but--I think --I hope--it would be the final move---- What do you all think?-- I will never be any younger-- but--I WILL get older-----
and of course, Lopez will come with me---