Saturday, December 6, 2025

I choose to remain positive!

 It is Saturday,  December 6th--and we have a mixture of snow and rain falling here--Son #2 is on his way here--for Himself's celebration of life--

I shall try to get the "blog"out everyday--  over Xmas--but--in case I have to miss a day here and there, please hang in-- It just means a busy day here--and another blog will eventually appear--To-day it was the driveway that I had to clear but the thoughts were  still waiting to go in the blog--just had to happen a bit later--
So---  Can you remain "positive"-----in spite of all the negativity around you?---  "FAKE it till you make it""--Mom always said that--  so I try to keep busy--go where there are people--even if I do not know these people--It does help--or, I invite people to come out to eat-- that helps also--and then there is little Lopez who needs quite a bit of attention--but he seems to understand when  the tears take over once again--and then there is the TV-a noise---company----in the house--
        So--Words I wish I had written--
#1.Be who you want to be, not what other people want you to be-
#2. There's no harm in asking
#3.Anyone can be happy in good times, but only the strong can be happy in bad times.

      -A lovely blast from the past-----Our Family---with some boys missing--
        Below--  "Cousins"--cute age eh?
So--  Are you ready for Xmas??--It will come anyway--  Just enjoy it--the people--the food--  the laughter--and the happiness--It's how we make life better--and we will!--  We are stronger than we believe--'specially when we try harder than we ever thought we could be!




















15 comments:

  1. It's Kathy. I will try to be happy but this day hasn't started out very well. I did appreciate your words of wisdom! And seeing your photos always helps. I hope all goes well at the tree lighting!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Kathy What on earth is wrong??--Not a good day eh?--Don'tcha hate those days??--Hope the day gets better--Lynda

      Delete
  2. I love to photo of you and Fred with the grand kids
    I love the Idea that the area is honoring Fred he did so much there for so many people

    I have no quote for today I just could not find the right one I did use the one you posted about being positive for myself today thank you

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Good thing yu userd my quote--LOL-- Whatever helps-Your day will improve-- its just the time of year--Hugs-Lynda--

      Delete
  3. Good morning, sis.
    How wonderful to have a tree of lights for two valuable and precious lives!
    Yes, Christmas is a magical time. Filled with family, friends, pets, gift, laughter, good food and fun. I don't know if I'll be going to my daughter's again, but we may have a celebration where everyone brings good for for a party with the residents. If not then, on New Year's or Day!
    It can be hard to see the positive in some things, but it's always there if we look for it. I saved the meme.
    Time to do stuff now. Just got back from 'Becca's trip. Now eating lunch (we stopped at Burger King).
    I'll be back later, Lynda. Just a reminder to be careful of you and Lopez in the snow and ice. (We're supposed to get more tonight.)
    Make yourself a day that's more positive than not ;-) {{{HUGS}}} Love, Maggie

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Maggie There is so much snow here--way more THAn we hAD iN Lakefield--but--I am happy be be back where I belong-- Hugs to yu dear friend-Lynda

      Delete
  4. My dear, I am glad that Son #2 is coming for the Celebration of life for Fred and Louis. I am sure it will be emotional for you but I hope there’s also some joy seeing how much Fred was loved by not just you and your family, but the community.

    Love the photos.

    Hugs, and blessings
    barb
    1cd

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Yes Barb--He must feel proud eh??--so happy for him and imagine--Matt is on his way--here--Lynda

      Delete
  5. Hi Lynda
    Glad Matt is on the way. Im glad hes able to be there for Fred's celebration. Fred was so loved and respected there.
    Hang in. Try to stay positive.
    Be careful out there.
    Hugs
    Marge/St.Louis

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Yes Marge--Go-morrow-- The celebration for Fred--He would be so proud-- Bugs, Lynda

      Delete
  6. Hi Lynda, enjoy having your Matt there with you and the special celebration/fundraiser. What a great thing they are doing for the community! I am sure it will be very moving.

    Marti

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Marti thank yu--Imagine--Matt will stay with me in my spare bedroom-- not for long but it will be fun--Lynd

      Delete
    2. I mean--""HUGS" to you--Lynda

      Delete
  7. Hi Lynda, I haven't been on in a long time because my daughter has been in the hospital since the end of August. Bue to all the problems from radiation treatments 39 years ago for hodgkins. I pray often and am out with people as much as possible. I always enjoy your posts and I know the holidays will be full of friends and family for you. Congratulations on Dr. Fred's memorial celebration. Donna_cps2 Lansing IL.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Donna--So good to see you again--I Am so sorry about your daughter--I cannot imagine what you both are going thru--Life really throws curve ball doesn't it??--I wish you the best--I am so sory for you both-- Big Hugs, Lynda

      Delete

First of all, you need to enable 3rd Party cookies. That will help fix your Whoops errors. So if you're on Firefox, turn off your Enhanced Tracking Protection. Near Comment, Click where it says Google Account and an arrow, you see the three ways to comment: Select profile... A) use your Google account, so that there is a profile picture next to your comment OR B) use your name line and then put in your User name, whatever name you want people to know you by, the second line for a website is optional OR C) be ANONYMOUS. When you have finished typing your comment, please copy it into your clipboard (your computer memory), in case there is a problem. Then you can paste it in again if necessary. Some comments disappear. Click the Publish button when you are done, you may see a box that says, I am not a robot ----Click there--then click -Publish. Do not check the Notify me button, unless you want contacted by email whenever anyone leaves a comment on this blog. Come back again soon, to see if there are any replies to your comment, and to join again in the discussion. If you do not see the comments, you need to click the title of the blog, to separate that blog from the main page or click Comments at the bottom of the blog, either way. It's okay if you double post, the extra ones will be removed soon if they are exactly the same as one before. Thank you!