WE CAN do everything !--- We might as well get up, and at-er !----Getting a tad older is not an excuse! Get on your clothes and get out there--face to-day with determination-- because--WE CAN!
More rain is falling--but--- I see that to-morrow--NO RAIN! --It looks like sunshine----
I have been reading a few books on grieving--how to accept it--that it is a natural process, and eventually it will pass--I still do find however, when I am out somewhere, my mind tries to remind me to get back home soon, as Himself is there by himself and needs me-( We all know that he is not here at all-)---Odd how your mind works !-- I also find that I must accept that people quite often do not include a single person when they are heading off to a concert somewhere ----a couple is accepted---but not always a single person---so that person is left in their home ---- alone---It seems it is just the way it is---I really believe I should start a " Merry Widows organization"--maybe when I return to Elliot Lake-----(Justa idea!)--
Another month closer to August 1st-- when I move to Elliot --I am beginning to put a few things into bins---before the movers really do appear--which will be end July--
I am most anxious to get back to Elliot---lotza work when I get there--will have to buy ANOTHER washer and dryer--have it installed----(How many washers have we all purchased in our life time?)--
One foot in front of the other--and when we look back, we will have climbed a mountain--No crying --no feeling sorry for ourselves-- because , of course we CAN do this-
Make everyday the best day of your life!-
Good Morning!
ReplyDeleteWe finally have a little sun today and it looks like it will be rain free the whole Memorial Day weekend. But, rain is back in the forecast for Tuesday. I think we have a record for the amount of rain fall this spring.
It won't be long before you are moving again so that's a good idea to start getting a head start on the packing. Have a great Saturday!
Jackie
yes moving back to my old stomping grounds --- rain here also and quite cold--Good to hear from yu--Lynda
DeleteIt's Kathy. I think you are doing amazingly! I really can't imagine how challenging it must be to have to change so much all at once like this. All I can say is that when Daisy has had to be away for even a few hours, I forget that she's gone and I look for her! You have something wonderful to look forward to - moving back to the town you love. All that work will keep you busy for awhile and that's probably a good thing. Take care and have a lovely day!
ReplyDeleteHowdy Kathy--=another cool-ish Spring day here--Lynda
DeleteIs it Memorial Day weekend for you? I can't remember, but I think not? Anyway, it is here! My bf is coming! It will be a good weekend! I get Monday off work! :)
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ReplyDeleteYou should positive this morning which is always a good thing.
Packing stuff will make your move faster lol. Go ahead and tackle it. That will also save money as movers will only have to move furniture and big stuff. It will also keep you busy, also good.
Very cool in St.Louis with rain forecasted for the 3 day Memorial day weekend. Too cold for pools to open.
Have a,great day.
Hugs.and love
Marge
Marge-It' s very cool here also--- It will be nice when we feel the warmer air-Lynda
DeleteHi Lynda! It is cool and breezy in Ohio! Very comfortable. So exciting you will be moving soon. Get Speed Queen washer and dryer. I have it. They are so good. My husband sells appliances. After he retired from the Navy he worked for the goernment then fell into appliances years ago. Have a wonderful day! Hugs!
ReplyDeleteOK--Speed Queen--I shall remember that-Lynda
DeleteYes, it is commercial quality and simple to use.
Delete"I also find that I must accept that people quite often do not include a single person when they are heading off to a concert somewhere ----a couple is accepted---but not always a single person---so that person is left in their home ---- alone---It seems it is just the way it is---"
ReplyDeleteI have been divorced for four decades. Most of my couple friends are from church, post/divorce, and they always and still do include me in ...though we are seniors now, so we don't get out and go as much. I've always held onto my girlfriends, be married or single, and a mix of both are good companions. I counseled my daughter from her early teens on to never let her girlfriends go and to spend girl-time with them regardless of whether she was single or coupled. Girlfriends occupy a space that needs to be filled, even with the best husband/boyfriend possible.
Glad you're putting a few things in bins for the move. So much easier than all at once.
Happy Saturday!
Yu are good to remember yer girl friends--I must remember that too-Lynda
DeleteHi Lynda: Really glad to hear about your eyes. That is so great. I'll have to ask my opthalmologist if that is possible for me. I have to get a shot i my one eye every 2 months as I had a blockage so don't know if I could. And you can only get it once? Have a good night. Brenda
ReplyDeleteIt duly is a miracle that the Optho cold clear my vision--I CAN SEE!--Lynda
DeleteThe mind does do strange things when you are grieving! But that’s all part of it.
ReplyDeleteGlad you are already starting to get ready to move back to Elliot Lake.
You WILL be busy, but busy is good.
Hugs and hope you have a peaceful weekend.
Barb
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OH BARB--another move--but--a good move--I jut feel that--Lynda
DeleteHow did I miss this yesterday? I'm home now. Will catch up. {{{HUGS}}} Your sis, Maggie
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