I just could not sleep very well last night--knowing I have to get out of here, Fred's niece , who lives in New York City called last night-- which helped to pass the night-- She and her husband do not feel I should return to Elliot--- but start a new llfe here-- I just do not know, at this point---I literally do not know if I am coming or going--LOL--
I must get ready--will chat with you all after lunch--I hope that your day is good---Make your day go well-- When you travel with Son#2 , you eat well--We had a huge breakfast--- then stopped for a fruit drink--strawberry and banana drink--after the blood work--and drove home in a snow storm---Oh--We stopped to pick up the blind that had broken--- They sent us a new blind--So a lot was accomplished--
Remember that you are smarter than you believe---You just have to "Hang in""---Your mind is great--greater than a lot of people realize---
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Good morning, Lynda! I hope the doctor can help you feel better. (Hug)
ReplyDeleteWow! Knowing you're had issues posting comments, it's sure good to see you here, Ace! I share those hopes, Lynda, that you have safe trip (thank you to your son!) and that you feel better!
DeleteSo good to see yu on here Alicia-- had blood work-- Son#2 took me out for breakfast--was a snowy morning but we got a lot done--took Lopez--Took Fred's ears back--Lynda
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ReplyDeleteHope you get some help for the flu at the clinic. Feel better soon.
Jackie
H Jackie--We had a busy snowy morning--went to Lab in Peterborough--had lunch out too-- lotza snow fell here--Lynd
DeleteWell, it’s wonderful that son #2 is driving you into Peterborough for your blood work.
ReplyDeleteSure hope you feel better! The cough from the flu just seems to hang on!
My dear, the adage is after some major event, it is best not to make any huge decisions for a year. Just let things settle for awhile. You’ll know when the time is right to make a decision. I am sure with Himself gone now, it makes Elliot – home – even more attractive, but . . . take our time making a decision.
Good luck with your blood draw and take care of yourself and little Lopez!
Hugs
Barb
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Oh Barb--I shall try to not make a decision right now--do not know oif I am coming or going--LOL-- Lynda-Yes I tpok Lopez for the ride--- Better day today than yesterday--Thank Goodness!--Lynda
DeleteI hope your lab work turns out well, and that they can help you feel better!
ReplyDeleteI feel which place you live...you will miss certain things about the other place. That's why I suggested making a positive and negative list about each place. Bottom line, go with your heart.
Will check later.
I have the eye doctor today. {{{HUGS}}} Love, Maggie
Good for yu to have the eye DR---Yes had blood work--back at the hospital where Fred was--We had snow overnight----Much better day than yestetday--Thank Goodness--Lynda
DeleteHi Lynda, God bless Matt for taking you for blood test. I do hope Matt doesn't get sick.
ReplyDeleteI'm curious if relatives of Air Canada can fly free on stand by. My brother worked for an airline and we were able to do that. You could maybe plan a little trip with Matt
Lynda, everyone....will have an opinion about you moving. You will drive yourself nuts...just like selling the big house.
Make a list of pros and cons. You won't have Matt in EL and that's a huge con. But, if EL is the only place you feel you'll be happy...go with your heart. Give yourself time. You do know EL won't be the same...no giant house, yard etc. The key is finding things to do, with others, that you enjoy. Maybe it's volunteering at a pet adoption center or in a children's hospital or aqua aerobics. Hope you find contentment.
Hugs, love, peace
Marge/St.Louis
Hi again Lynda, saw your note about breakfast out and a fruit drink too. Matt does enjoy food.
ReplyDeleteGood that you could return Fred's ears. That's very good.
Got a new blind too. All sorts of errands accomplished. Super
Enjoy today. Your first note said you couldn't sleep as you have to get out of there. Do you really feel that way?
Hoping you find some pleasure and peace in your day.
Marge/St.Louis
Good morning Lynda. Since you had an order for blood work, does that mean that you have a Doctor assigned to you? I hope that's the case because it's scary to think that if you became ill that your only option would be to go to the emergency room. Matt is an angel and I'm sure you feel that way too. I hope the antibiotics work like magic and that you feel completely well again. Have a blessed day.
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It's Kathy. You know, they (who exactly they are I'm not sure) say that it's not a good idea to make any permanent decisions when you are grieving. Maybe you need to just take a breath and let your heart heal before you decide. I see the benefits of both! And now you are fighting some kind of cold/flu bug. I'm glad your son is able to drive you to have your blood work done. I support you whatever you decide to do! And I am praying for you every day. Wish I could be there in person!
ReplyDeleteHi Lynda! It is sunny but cold in Ohio. You’ve had a day already. I have labs Monday for my annual exam. I dread it extra bad! I am a needle chicken so much!! As for moving, I say follow your heart BUT, like I tell my mom in a similiar situation, when you cannot get your own groceries, get to the hairdresser, go to the bank, medical appointments, all the things-WHO is going to take you? Matt or the boys?? Just food for thought. Hope you feel better soon. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteHi Lynda: Glad you are able to get blood drawn to get some tests done. The weather was bad here this morning too. Lots of problems on the roads this morning that the city (Toronto) was called out for. Moving nis a very personal decision that you need to put a lot of thought into about what is best for you. Things like Matt does a lot for you and the three boys in Elliott did not. Do you have a lot of friends there to help you, etc. I think it's too soon to make a decision like that when you are still grieving. Hope you feel better tomorrow. Hugs Brenda
ReplyDeleteHi Lynda! I'm glad you got blood work done and hoping you are starting to feel better. You've had too much change in your life. First this move, then Himself passing away, and now you're sick. This is just way too much to handle. I think the support you are getting from Son Matt is a godsend. If you were back in Elliot would the others be as helpful? I still agree with everyone else, making another big decision is not right for you. Your emotions are all over the place. You probably don't know which way is up. Take time Linda, as it is your friend now. Give this new place a chance. Once you get better, try and do what others have suggested with going out doing things. Look for your local seniors group. Join in. It just might surprise you that you will like it. I know it's hard, believe you me I know it's hard. Going outside of your comfort zone is scary. I keep praying that the Lord will guide you forward, and that he will help you with peace and strength.
ReplyDeleteLynda, great you are blogging. Good girl. Thought on paper are important
ReplyDeleteKeep up the positive. Love to you. Big hugs
Hi Lynda….so glad that Matt took you for bloodwork AND yummy food…what a caring and helpful son! Sorry you are ill but hope that with proper diagnosis you will begin to feel better SOON! You have been thru a lot…packing, moving, learning a new area, arranging belongings, Fred’s illness and passing… please focus on regaining your health as your priority. When you feel better, in time, it will become clearer what your next step, if anything, should be. Please take good care! ❤️ Eissa7 (karen)
ReplyDeleteHi, Lynda, it's me, Marti. I think you should make a list of all the plusses and minuses of moving, and then decide for yourself. And the reasons why you want to move back, and what you expect to receive in Elliott Lake that you cannot receive where you are.
ReplyDeleteDid you do your taxes yet? I just had to do my taxes. Yuck, because I always owe. I get some back from the state, though. :)
Whoops, I mean all the plusses and minus's of Elliot Lake vs. where you are now. I think you should at least stay the summer and fall, and see how nice it is there vs. back in Eliot Lake. I don't think there's any rush to it, unless you are wanting to get back to Elliot Lake b4 winter sets in. You already know what the winter is like THERE. LOL Marti
ReplyDeleteI’ve repeatedly read that you should not make any major life decisions for a year following the loss of a spouse. Let your heart heal a bit and then make a decision with a clear head. I am sorry for all you’re going through! Hugs!
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