So, what is the tiny townhouse like?-- Well, I like it--(That is a big thing!)--It is very old---(I can tell because the windows and doors don't quite meet-)---- but, everything is here-- The washer and dryer were delivered---I have 2 bathrooms-- (It is a 2 level place)-- 2 bedrooms--no basement-- Gil has been here everyday --(Till to-day)-He cut a lot of bush down in the back--built a small deck for this yr--says it can be expanded next year---- I live on a lovely street--close to the lake--- and the tennis courts are right across the street--- and it is so much easier to be living in town here--
Am I lonely?--YES!!!!! --I do miss Fred--a lot!!!!--- I cry a lot----(When does that ever end?)--Son #2 calls and helps me with the banking--Allison calls and reminds me to check the Lab reports from the Doctor--Son #1, Son#3 and son#4 invite me to have a meal with them, often--and I go, because eating alone is not fun!
Do I find it better here than Lakefield?--- yes, because it seems everyone knows me--recognizes me--remembers Fred--That is so nice!------So, I am trying to get thru the big move--- take it a box a day--to empty-- Lopez , Sushi , and I , are going to make this our home----"forever and for always"---- Oh--We bought one of those portable AC units, and have it up on the 2nd level, and it seems to cool the whole place---which is wonderful!
I hope that to-day you are feeling stronger than you did yesterday-- Do not allow anyone to put you down---Just renember
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Good morning Lynda. I am relieved to see you are back, and thrilled that you're so happy with your townhouse and being back in Elliott Lake. The photos you shared are lovely and I'm glad to see your piano in place. Great news that sons #1, #3 and #4 are inviting you for meals. Take it one box at a time. It looks like the livingroom is taken care of and most likely your bedroom. Enjoy your day.
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Maureen--Thank yu for writing-- I am finally back where I belong--I HAVE MISSED YOU ALL___ lotza unpacking still to do--but it will happen in time--Thank yu for writing-Lynda
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ReplyDeleteWhy did yu remove yer comment? hugs anyway-- LYNDA
DeleteBecause I published it without proof reading it and it had way too many typos in it. Sorry. I republished it. - Betty
DeleteHi Lynda. Thanks for the update. I think of you every day and I'm happy you took some time to reach out.
ReplyDeleteLooks like your LR is all unpacked and the piano has a new home.
Very happy to hear the local boys are inviting you over for a meal. That's a big change from before.
Your friend, Gil. Is certainly helping a lot
Will Allison be coming soon?
Locked out twice LOL. GOTTA LAUGH. You'll get through all the unpacking. Keep plugging away. Looks like you kept a lot so you'll have fun finding spots for everything.
Love the last insert. I'm spunky so I can appreciate that sentiment lol
Don't be a stranger. Keep sending updates. Please. Happy unpacking and welcome home.
Marge in very hot St.Louis
Marge--so nice that yu wrote--yes, of courseI -I brought too much stuff-- LOL--Oh well-- It will get sorted out --in time--so good o see yu--Big hugs going yer way-Lynda
DeleteHome Sweet Home. It is a joy to read that you are happy here. I know that familiar surroundings make quite a difference. Like you said one box a day. It will be a good thing that your family is near and invite you out to eat. I sure hope you take advantage of that as often as you can. Just know that you will be able to make this place what works for you. I know you miss Fred a lot, and that's understandable. It hasn't even been a year yet. It will get better in time, but this wound is still raw and open. Time will help it heal to the point where it is ok for you. Know that you are stronger than you realize. You've been through 3 moves, great loss, and a new way of life. You've got this Lynda and give yourself credit.
ReplyDeleteHi Lynda! So nice to see you! I missed you, too! So sorry you locked yourself out twice. A lot of stuff on your mind. You sound so happy which warms my heart! Your townhouse looks lovely! So proud of the kids helping you out. Sending lots of love from Ohio to you, Lopez and Sushi! Have a wonderful evening!
ReplyDeleteHi Lynda!! I’m so happy for you. Your townhome looks lovely. It’s understandable to be emotional, especially being back home without your love. It’s going to be great being familiar with the area. One box at a time for sure!
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Yay, so glad you are back, missed you. Life isn't normal without a daily post from you, and I don't even know you, LOL.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you are as happy as you can be, without the love of your life. Do the animals seem to like it? Do you have a good place to walk your doggie?
I've been a mess. I had all the excitement of my new sofa and ottoman, the concert, and swimming, the last time I was talking to you. Then my back was killing me, and my hips, and I started taking lots and lots of Advil. Then I got an ulcer. Now I can hardly put any pressure on my left foot - I have a deformed foot and leg - think club foot with a leg that might look like I had polio. I'm getting older and it's disintegrating. So I went to the doc. I wear a walking boot as a shoe. He says he thinks it's all tied together. Both my shoulders hurt all the time too, I think, bursitis. I was mighty worried. And then the excitement of the new car I kind of, on impulse, bought. My old car was 10 months from being paid off, but well, I had my eye on this cute little SUV - a Kia Seltos. So I leased one. It's just about the best car I've ever had.
So, you hang in there, and I'll try to do the same. I don't know how you do it all! I'm only 67 and feel like I'm falling apart.
Marti
Yay, so glad you are back, missed you. Life isn't normal without a daily post from you, and I don't even know you, LOL.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you are as happy as you can be, without the love of your life. Do the animals seem to like it? Do you have a good place to walk your doggie?
I've been a mess. I had all the excitement of my new sofa and ottoman, the concert, and swimming, the last time I was talking to you. Then my back was killing me, and my hips, and I started taking lots and lots of Advil. Then I got an ulcer. Now I can hardly put any pressure on my left foot - I have a deformed foot and leg - think club foot with a leg that might look like I had polio. I'm getting older and it's disintegrating. So I went to the doc. I wear a walking boot as a shoe. He says he thinks it's all tied together. Both my shoulders hurt all the time too, I think, bursitis. I was mighty worried. And then the excitement of the new car I kind of, on impulse, bought. My old car was 10 months from being paid off, but well, I had my eye on this cute little SUV - a Kia Seltos. So I leased one. It's just about the best car I've ever had.
So, you hang in there, and I'll try to do the same. I don't know how you do it all! I'm only 67 and feel like I'm falling apart.
Marti
P.S. Your little condo looks wonderful, and you won't have the feeling that Fred should be there, as now, you really ARE starting over, fresh.
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Oh, then I had scammers who broke into my Amazon account, and charged over $1500 to my account...LOL. Life, I tell ya...
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Hi Lynda, it's Kathy. I love the new Townhouse! I also love that you truly do sound happy. I know you miss Fred and probably always will, but you're back where you feel comfortable. Tom and I talk often about moving because our home is on a very busy road and needs so much repair but I've been here 43 years now - I know how to get where I need to go, most things are close enough to even walk if I want. So I think here is where we will stay. I'm afraid if we move further out, we will never feel comfortable! You, Sushi and Lopez will settle in quickly. And how nice that your 3 sons are inviting you for meals - I also don't like eating alone! Take care and relax - I like that you're unpacking one box at a time!
ReplyDeleteGood evening, sis! Happy you're back blogging. I've been checking a couple times a day.
ReplyDeleteThe font we see is just as it always was.
The photos of your living room are just fine. Did you need to get your piano retuned?
I am glad you have lots of meal invites from your sons.
Yesterday my friend, Donna, and I went to my favorite Asian restaurant for my birthday. Thanks that my free dessert or appetizer was good the whole month. I am still eating the leftovers.
Keep on truckin' with that unpacking and sorting out, Lynda. You'll get it done eventually.
I'll check back later, too. It's time to eat more leftovers (yum!) now and feed Lucky. {{{HUGS}}} Love, Maggie
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Hi Lynda: Glad to hear you are getting settled and you are getting help. And the piano made it! Good you like your home. Nice that people remember you and Fred. Hugs Brenda
ReplyDeleteRD in AZ here I am so glad that you are back and home I love the photos of the new place you will feel so much more at home there
ReplyDeleteSo happy you are finally home! Hope you get plenty of good, refreshing sleep, and take your time figuring out your “stuff” and where you put it all. Ease into it. Glad you have friends to invite over. Hairdresser that you like!
ReplyDeleteWell, the piano is there, as are the familiar pieces of furniture and photos and artwork that make your place a home. And so nice to be back where you are welcomed and recognized as someone who belongs there. You can do things on your own schedule, read in bed, have whatever you want for dinner (sandwich! pizza! soup! crackers and cheese!). You won't be yearning to return home because now you're there. You might want to ask around (at the lodge, maybe?) if there is a grief support group or something similar where you can share your emptiness with others who are going through the same thing.
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