Saturday, October 25, 2025

It's your Birthday--my Dear husband!

                                        Fred-----  on the left--  with bis brother, Murray

Good Day--  still dark here--but--  It is a special  day--It is Himself's Birthday--TO_DAY--He is 97 years young--and--He is in Heaven--Hold onto those you love--tight!!-

-So my Dear Husband--I do miss you---I know that you were not ready to go there-to Heaven---yet-----  You must wait there for me--For some reason, you left me behind-- maybe to look after all the kids??-----I know that you had a reason to get  there--to Heaven, before me--

We are celebrating your Birthday to-day--at Son#1's restaurant------I am bringing a cake --and we will sing to you--You must've forgotten to tell me that you were going to Heaven when you did--You see, I did not want you to leave me here--

I heard you sing the other day--  You sang "Montego Bay"--I was driving back home from taking the garbage up to Dunlop--and --  I was  heading home--down the hill , in the car, and was feeling sorta afraid, and then you sang---  I felt a lot better when  I heard "Montego Bay-It came thru the radio loud and clear-----knew it was you--


So my love--my Dear man--  What are you doing  there in Heaven?--  Do you see Lopez and I here?--and all the kids?--Allison misses you terribly--well, We all do--Can you come to the restaurant to-night--to
 Andrews?--Speaking of Andrew's--Lisa and he, have been most kind to me--have me over fr supper a lot--and it really helps to eat with people--

I REALLY MISS YOU---  You were my "rock"---always did the right thing--always stood beside me--  directed me-I wish you were still here--  -There must've been a reason that you went to Heaven first eh?--I should say "thank you"--but---  I miss you SO SO much!----I don't like  being here alone--  so please stick around  --close--  help me to get thru each day--even  play some Calypso music to let me know that you are close--Now I am crying--Can you help me stop these tears?----let me know how you are--what you are doing---  I am sorry that I am so sad--Can you watch over all of us--?--help us to accept that you are near--- not gone--but--- near--
I love you--need you---  WE ALL NEED YOU__big hugs my love!--
Lynda----even Lopez--  and Sushi--
Lordy Be---  Now I am crying--more!






2 comments:

  1. Good morning Lynda
    What a beautiful tribute to such a wonderful man.
    Happy Birthday dear Fred.
    He is with you and watching, feel his arms around you.
    Hugs and prayers
    Marge

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  2. Special Blessings to you and your family as you remember Fred and celebrate his 97th birthday 🙏🏼 Carol in FL

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