Good morning-- cool out there this AM.--Lopez and I have walked--AND_-HE DID HIS BUSINESS! Whatta good little boy eh?---- But last night he must've been tired--very difficult to deal with----snarky--- would've bitten me for sure--I could not get him upstairs--I finally left him in the living room, hoping he would follow me up--which he didn't-
Lordy be , Chihuahuas are not an easy pet to keep-- One has to REALLY LIKE them -also, have tons of patience with them so not to get bitten. He finally went onto his crate down here--on the main floor--and I knew then his attitude had changed--I do not know whether it was my Himself and his cane ---was that the beginning of Lopez attitude ---or is it justa Chihuahua thing??--I do not believe that "giving him away" would not help the situation--probably would make it worse--
Anyway---the first picture in this blog, is what the trees look like now--in the North----It is FALL--= and ever so pretty--
This was out at Dunlop Lake
-and I think it is me----
Good morning, Lynda. I've had two Chihuahuas, not at the same time, and had no problems with them biting me or anyone. They were both good natured and loved to be held and talked to. They were like babies. I don't know why Lopez is like he is, that is baffling to me. I'm no expert in these dogs however, so I'd say talk to your vet about his behaviour, he can probably help. Worth a try, Lynda.
ReplyDeleteA grief counsellor is good to see when a loved one is gone. I was a basket case when my daughter passed away last year and I am just now coming to terms with her not being here anymore. It's a long process, so don't rush it, just kind of go with it.
The trees in your photos are awesome! Fall is my favourite season and I look forward to it arriving!
Have a nice day, get out in the fresh air.
Much love, Gloria xoxo
Gloria--Great idea--Talk to my vet--Here I thought all Chihuahuas were like Lopez--It began when Fred used to wave his many canes at him and I suppose he hit him also when I wasn't there--- so--=he is a great del of work for me now nd I do love him to bits--I shall talk to the vet see if he can help me-- Lynda
DeleteHope you have a good visit with the grief counselor. As for Looez, if you were to look back at your blogs, you would realize that Lopez has been a difficult dog from the beginning and there was a reason he was looking for a home when you got him. I am sure that Himself’s cane did not help the situation either. Lopez is probably not going to change at this point, but you could try a trainer again.
ReplyDeleteThe trainer was good and helped him--but expensive--She lives near Lakefield-=-far from here-- Hopefully with creative patience things will; improve--Lynda
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ReplyDeleteNot sure what would make Lopez act out, obviously something was affecting him. Something must have scared him. I guess he was letting you know he needed a little space. I hope you won't give him away. He needs you and you need him.
Glad you are going to see the grief counselor. I think it will be helpful.
Have a wonderful day!
Jackie
NO Jackie--I will never give him away--He is my friend-- giving him away would make him worse--Lynda
DeleteIt's Kathy. Yes, I wish pets lived longer. My little Daisy is 12 now and getting pretty stubborn. She refuses to come when called if she doesn't want to, she'll go out to do her business but hates it when I have to work outside. Today I needed to pick some things out of the garden - she stood in the doorway watching me. Oh, but I love her so much and she is such company for me. I am home all day today, mostly alone, so I need to get some cleaning done and putting away all the things I've purchased on-line this week! At least I had a pretty good night's sleep! I hope you have a good day and the grief counselor goes well.
ReplyDeleteHi Lynda, if I remember correctly, you picked up Lopez from a breeder. How did you select this breeder? It's possible that some of this behavior came from the mom and dad dogs. When Lopez was young, you recounted times when Himself either hit or swung at Lopez with his cane, and that may have made Lopez defensive. Stop and think how many adjustments he had to make in a relatively short time. The move from Elliott Lake to Lakefield, from Lakefield to a trailer and from the trailer to your townhome. Chihuahuas are known to be fiercely loyal to their owner/family. Perhaps because you are still in the grieving process, you, unknowingly, are acting differently towards Lopez. This is all speculation on my part. You must act like the Alpha dog, meaning the one in charge. When you are feeling more like yourself, I think Lopez will settle down. Look at Sushi, even she is behaving differently, and not leaving your room. All three of you have been impacted by Fred's passing and all of the moves.
ReplyDeleteMaureen from California
Hi Lynda
ReplyDeleteChiwauwas are a feisty breed. I have yet to meet a Chiwauwau that I'd trust not to bite me. If you look back, you've had issues with his behavior since you've had him. No way of knowing why hes upset. Leaving him alone works.
Glad you are seeing grief counselor. Im hoping counselor has a grief support group.
Your trees are pretty. No Brite colors again this year in St.Louis due to heat and no rain. Our leaves are brown and will fall off. I love fall tree colors.
Enjoy your day.
Marge/St.Louis
Sorry Lopez was so feisty last night, but you at least he settled down. You took the right approach letting him stay downstairs and settle down.
ReplyDeleteAnd I dearly hope that the grief counselor helps you. It is such a process, but worth it.
hugs and blessings
barb
Hi Lynda! It’s sunny and hot in Ohio today. I bet Lopez was just having a bad day like we all do. LOL You did the right thing by just letting him stay downstairs. Hope you had a better day! Hugs!
ReplyDeleteHi Lynda: The last year has been rough on both you and Lopez. Some dogs are affected more than others by their owners mood. As you have been severely affected by Fred's passing, that affects Lopez. I am really glad you are seeing a grief counsellor today. Hopefully the counsellor also has some kind of grief support group as well that you could attend. Hugs Brenda
ReplyDeleteGood morning, sis.
ReplyDeleteDunlop Lake is gorgeous! Our trees are changing, too. Beautiful, but then it makes me think of the snow and ice to follow.
I am glad you will be with your counselor today. I am sure it will help you.
Don't we all wish our pets lived longer?! I don't want to feel the grief of losing Lucky, but I don't want him grieving if I 'go' first. And pets DO grieve. What a conundrum.
I have a visit with my primary care doc on Monday. Maybe she can help me figure out the numbness in my legs and feet.
It's 63F here now and will reach 80F later. Can't wear those new sweats today...I am wearing Bermuda shorts now.
Gonna check the laundry room now, Lynda. When I come back later, maybe you will say how your appointment went. {{{HUGS}}} Love, Maggie
Pets do seem to go through the whole growing up and aging process soooo fast! And leave us bereaved WAY too soon! I am happy that Ember is getting so much better behaved and grown up (even though she's not perfect, mind you), and she's not yet two years old. Lopez is a little older than her... Chihuahuas have the advantage of their size, they live longer than German Shepherds and the other bigger breeds. I hope that Lopez does better as you both "settle in" to your new digs.
ReplyDeleteI also hope that your appointment with the grief counselor goes well, and that it gives you some comfort and relief. It's not like grief is a switch that we turn on and off! But even recognizing that it's OK to have those "moments" and have a soft place to land... is good.
How lovely the changing colors of the leaves on the trees … wonderful scenery🍂
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