This is Beau, this morning, just in from his walk around the property. He tends to chase vehicles if I take him on the back road--and because he is so strong, and I can't hold him back--and with bis AF condition of his heart, -----he only runs around between the lake and the back road, in our yard, when outside.
But--(that big "butt" again!)-I walked myself---"hoofed" it, as Dad used to say! AND------there is more--the weight now is 191.5. Lord love a duck! Unbelievable! I think the loss of weight is due to the loss of tears---They still are flowing-----maybe not as much---i think the sadness stems too from , me knowing that I should not get a new puppy, due to himself and I aging----
You see, we have always replaced whatever dog has passed on--- so--there has always been 2 German (as in dogs)- in our life. We have the yard for 2 dogs-- We have the house and equipment for 2 dogs--- but----himself being almost 93 and me , not a spring chicken, is it a wise move to have 2 enormous dogs at this time? My mind tells me, "No"--my heart tells me, "Go For It"------AND--if we were ever to get another puppy, maybe it should be a small breed---
I hope to blow some of the pine needles that the trees are shedding, all over the driveway, this morning.--Beau can assist me--be out there with me and we can play ball or he can chase a few chippys--his favourite pastime! (He never ever has caught one!)
Hang in there, Lynda... I've been watching the German Shepherd pup in the neighborhood, named Tilly grow up this summer... oh, so fast! They do get big in a hurry, so you may be wise to be looking for a smaller breed if you do want a companion for Beau. What about the Queen's favorite, a Welsh Corgi? They're more of a medium size, big enough when full grown that Beau would not overwhelm them, but small enough that you would probably be able to handle them?
ReplyDeleteAnyway, there is time for that... when you run out of tears, give yourself a rest, and move on.
Congrats on the scale's cooperation! And hugs and prayers for all, continuing!
Oh Barb--Good morning to yu--- I am giving it time---- sad thing eh?--- --I mean the grieving--So nice to hear from yu this AM
DeleteDear Lynda - I didn't get to the computer yesterday, so I am only now seeing this sad news about your precious Tess! Your heart must be so sore and I am so sad for you. I hope for you a really bright spot in your day today.
ReplyDeleteOh yu are so good to write! -- Here I am crying again--- Lord Be, its so hard eh to lose a friend-- hugs, Lynda
ReplyDeleteSuch a sad time for you, himself and Beau. It is very hard to lose a pet as they are a big part of the family. Tess gave you many happy memories and you will never forget them. Congrats on your weight loss! Thinking of you and sending hugs.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your weight loss! I'm sorry you are having such a difficult time. It must be so hard to lose your walking companion/friend! And yet you still have been going out there, doing what needs done. Good job! Maybe you could look at adult dogs at the shelter, to give Beau a playmate, a little later down the road.
ReplyDeleteHi Lynda,
ReplyDeleteWhen I married my husband (we were both widows)in 2020, I gained 2 small dogs. I have never had dogs in my life before so it took a little to get used do. One passed away this winter and we are left with sweet little Molly. She is a doll and a peach and I hope she is around a long time.
MY NEIGHBOR HAD TO PUT ONE OF HER TWO DOGS DOWN LAST WEEK AND THE ONE DOG THAT IS LEFT WAS MISSING HIM SO MY NEIGHBOR GAVE HER A BLANKET THAT THE OTHER DOG USED AND IT SEEMED TO COMFORT HER. CONGRATS ON YOUR WEIGHT LOSS.
ReplyDeleteWhatta great idea! Thank yu--
DeleteOh my, Lynda....I am so very sorry about Tess!!! I feel your sadness as I have experienced it, as well. The decision as to what to do as far as adding another dog to your household will be clear as time passes.
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the weight loss- nice job!!! Eissa7
Great news on your weight loss Lynda! Sad about Tess but things will get better for you all. It’s a big decision to make about getting another pet and a smaller dog might be easier to walk and still be company for Beau. Have a good day today! ❤️
ReplyDeleteThis sadness hangs around forever, just not as strong. If you get another dog, better designate who will take care of it for you, if something happens to you, so it does not wind up somewhere, alone. Time marches on, whether we like it or not. If something happened to you right now, who would take Beau, and the cat? Who would take care of Himself? Questions to ponder. Go play your piano. Would you still like to visit your daughter? Think of these things. Truly. Take care.
ReplyDeleteThings will get better, both you and I know that.
ReplyDeleteAt one point we had 3 dogs when we got Bear when he was a puppy but not sure I want anymore when he is gone. We are just getting older and not sure I want another one.
ReplyDeleteOne of my friends gave me this when Keller passed, hope maybe it will help you:
"Thank you for loving me enough to let me go. I am in a wonderful place now, there are a lots of things to discover, sniff and play with. There is no pain, its not as good as being by your side but until we meet again I will always be here watching over you."
Have a great Thursday
So sorry for your loss Lynda! Being in nature helps so it’s good you continue your walks. Keeping active will help. Sending you hugs & congrats on the weight loss...Cathy
ReplyDeleteYou don't need a puppy, but there are lots of adult dogs. GSDs included, who need you.
ReplyDeleteYu are so right--- I shall look for them too-Lynda
DeleteI've wondered about leaving my pet behind, too. You know how Beau is without his companion...think of if you left, too. There is a program here called senior pets for seniors. See if there is one around you. You could adopt a senior German...but not quite as old and infirm. That would help Beau, too. The sadness will (mostly) pass eventually. {{{HUGS}}}
ReplyDeleteLynda I know you love your Germans as in dog . Just think of all there is to do for a puppy.. and we must think of the future. If anything changes who would take the young doggie in as well as Beau? Just some things to think about.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on more weight removal.. awesome
Lynda I'm so sorry for your tears. I am proud of you for continuing your walks without your buddy. Tess was so loved that you were able to let her go peacefully. Congrats on more pounds gone. Take the best possible care of you ❤
DeleteIn time things will get better
Hugs
Awwww, it's all right to cry! It's healing to cry! Butyou did the right thing and I know you know that. Hard as it is, they depend on us to keep them comfortable. They depend on us to make the choice to NOT let them suffer.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your weight! That's awesome!
((((HUGS))))
191.5 is almost 189 :>)
ReplyDeleteWow - congratulations on your weight! The decision to get another dog at our age takes some thought - especially if you're thinking a puppy. They take so much time and energy! I did downsize - from 135lb of GS to 19 and 25lb of poodle mixes (and they don't shed!) Give yourself time to decide. Meanwhile, glad you and Beau have each other and stay busy! Hugs
ReplyDeleteMy opinion, as if you asked for MY opinion, haha...you still have one dog. Enjoy him. :) IF, when he passes, you just feel miserable/at a loss/whatever, for a companion, downsize considerably. And downsize your idea of a downsize, LOL. I did that, as I'm in a condo now. Unfortunately, when my bigger dog was a pup, we had another dog, and they played together, and we had a huge fenced in yard. When he got old, he became a couch potato. This dog that I have now, the old one was 85 lbs. maybe, he's 36, well, he's as energetic as all get out. I now wish I had gotten something like a Shih Tzu, only I find them as ugly as anything with their smooshed in noses and big bulgy eyes and underbite. And teeny things, like Chihuahua's, can't stand those. No offense to those people who do.
ReplyDeleteWOW WOW WOW Lynda. That is AMAZING.... you are going to get to your goal weight Proud of you my dear friend.
ReplyDeleteThat is a hard decision to get or not get a dog and what kind. Praying you make the right decision for YOU!! No one else. Everyone will try to give their opinions just remember they are opinions you can or not take.
It is BEAUTIFUL here today. Nice breeze that has a fall nip to it. I love it. Sun is shining. I am in heaven
I am so sorry to hear of Tess' passing.
ReplyDeleteHugs to you, hugs to Beau!
Awesome job on the weight!!! I know it is hard losing a furbaby. Have lost 2 here. We have one cat left and like you and himself are "senior citizens." We won't be getting any more animals as we have no one here we could leave them with. Hard decision to make, but the wisest for us. You have to decide for yourself on this--at least you have children there who could take care of any animals. Tess will always be with you in your memories and pictures. Take care.
ReplyDeleteOH my dear, let those tears flow....I know what you mean about getting another dog. Our sweet Maeve left us in May. We are older and want to see our Grandson who lives sooo far away ao really it isn't the right thing for us. I know it isn't the same but in July we got 2 kittens. A brother and sister. BEST choice ever. They have each other and can be taken care od easily when we =get to travel. Hugs to you all...never, never easy.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your amazing weight loss!!! I have already talked with my DD about my pets surviving us. She says she will be in charge of them. But yes, we're not getting new ones until we have only 2 cats and 2 dogs or less. We used to have 10 pets (dogs & cats). Now we are down to 7. ((hugs))
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the weight loss. That's a lot! I think you should get another dog - a little smaller and maybe one that's a few years old so puppy training has been done. You have 3 kids in town and they have dogs so, if something happened wouldn't they look after them? It would make you feel better? Just something to think about. Take care of yourself.��
ReplyDeleteI bet a smaller dog would be a good pal for Beau. We lost our dog Coal 5 years ago now. My bf really has never gotten over it and won't consider another dog yet because it was so devastating. I'd love another dog and wish we'd adopted another during the pandemic since I was working remotely (I go back to the office in January.) One day.
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the weight loss!
Woo Hoo on the weight loss! Hugs as you sit with the loss of Tess.
ReplyDeleteLynda, the tears will lessen each day, the heartache will last a long time. As for getting another dog, I'd say 'go for it' but a small breed that perhaps one of your sons would gladly take if you could no longer take care of it one day. I know there are many seniors with one big and one small breed of dogs and it works really well. Wait a while though, until you're absolutely sure you want to go through the training, etc., again - because no matter what size puppy you get, they all need to be trained. My heart aches for you and will stop aching when you are feeling much better about your loss. Hugs, girlfriend.
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the weight loss, one pound at a time! You'll get there sooner than later. As for replacing Beau that's a hard decision. Personally I would not, but then again you need to do what is best for you and Himself. If I was to add another dog, I definitely would do a smaller breed. Things will get better in time, it's just really hard now.
ReplyDeleteOur pets are family only natural to mourn their loss :) hugs
ReplyDeleteJean, I was one of your Spark People fans, so I'm glad I found you again. When we got our border collie puppy three years ago, I questioned it too. At the time, I was 74. A BC isn't quite as powerful as a German Shepherd, but she occasionally lunges and has nearly unset me. Would it be possible for you to be happy with a smaller dog? One a little more calm? Beau might like a little brother. I've never been unhappy with our decision. Bella has been a savior during the COVID crisis.... so entertaining.
ReplyDeleteIt is a hard decision. Hugs
ReplyDeleteIt is so sad to hear about Tess. We know from the beginning that their time with us is limited, but that doesn't make it any easier to say the final goodbye. They claim our hearts and make us their slaves and know to comfort us when the people in our lives don't see we're hurting. Tess is playing in a lake under a rainbow now, splashing and swimming and sunning, and knowing she can do it all over again tomorrow. She will be with you in your heart, forever.
ReplyDeleteIt's a difficult decision whether to add a new dog to the household, not only whether Beau and Sushi will welcome a newcomer, but also if you're up to the training/scooping/physical aspects -- because you know the pet care is pretty much all your responsibility going forward. I do agree that if you choose a new dog, maybe think about a smaller breed.
Congratulations on the weight loss. Yes, some of it is due to the grieving, but we all have been on this journey for long enough to acknowledge that any loss makes a difference.
Sending hugs and hope for comfort.
Congrats on your weight loss. It is a big decision to make about replacing Tess. I think a smaller breed would be better this time around. But that's just me. Good luck with your choice.(((HUGS)))
ReplyDeleteI'm reading the blogs backward as I catch up, so I already know that you're getting a little bitty puppy. I'm so glad for you, and for Big Beau; I'm sure he'll be happier with another dog companion.
ReplyDeleteMy mom and dad decided that their last dogs were their last dogs due to age ... they had two doxie brothers, Fritz and Bandit, from the same litter. (Daschounds were their preferred breed, although we had many mutts through the years.) Bandit died before my mom, but Fritz outlived her, which was a blessing. She loved that dog to pieces, and even with dementia never stoped loving him. He gave her great comfort. Dad had to have him put down a few months after Mom passed, as Fritz was quite ill and in pain. He was eighteen.
It's hard to lose a dog we love, and when I think of the dogs I've loved and lost I still sometimes cry. But, oh the joy and companionship they bring.
I'm so glad you're doing well with your weight.