--and, you all know, that I am dealing with Himself and his dementia-(or whatever it is!)--Yesterday was a bad day for him---He took his cane and hit poor Beau, the German, as in dog. I had to "lay down the law" with Himself--(Mom's expression!)---
NO MORE HITTING ANYONE___NOT A DOG--- OR ANYONE! --- Poor Beau would not go near him all day.--And not me either!--- No matter what, you never hit-
-It isn't easy dealing with Himself on some days--other days are fine--- but I can see, before too long I will have to get a sitter, for him, when I need to go out--That will go over like a lead balloon for sure!
The days fly by-- The grown kids--the ones living here in town, are heading on planes, to parts unknown. It is their Easter Break-- I am not ready to get on an airplane yet, but lots of people seem to be.
It's a new day--a day to "get it right"-- be thankful that we are well-and happy that the snow is melting--
Dear Lynda, thank you for today's uplifting thoughts and messages.
ReplyDeleteNice work on chipping away at the extra pounds. If we keep trying, we will get there.
I'm so sorry to hear about the cane incident with Beau. So sad. Yes, a sitter will likely be needed if you are gone any length of time and no, Fred's not going to like it.
Have you given any more thought to downsizing. You mentioned some villas at one point. Just a thought. But ❤️. You do have your kids close where you are. Tough decisions.
Is Lopez getting it right consistently?
Stay strong.
Big hugs
Yes, We will be in this house only one more year-- if that! --The double tho, is that there is a scarcity of homes here now--and pretty much all over---WE may have to buy something very small and have it fixed up-- just don't know--Lynda--Oh--Lopez is doing his business outside--FINALLY --but--I don't trust him!
DeleteGlad that Beau is alright and hope that you can figure out what is going on with himself. Happy to hear the weight is going in the right direction. Hugs to you . . . stay strong
ReplyDeleteI think Margene said it all. I'd only be repeating. I had a nice chat online (zoom of course) with one of my sisters who live near Atlanta Georgia. We were having a good catchup but got interrupted by some major lightning so we said our goodbyes quick so she could unplug her computer gear.
ReplyDeleteI have a brand new computer and instead of the usual troubles, this thing has been a dream. I have everything set up just how it was on the slower computer and it only took a fraction of the time I expected it to take. Then there's this keyboard. It actually feels nice to type on it.
Anyway, one of my cats (the one with only three legs plus a thyroid and kidney issue) is wanting me to give him his meds so he can get his treats. So better go do it. It's the end of the day here and beginning of yours. I hope you have a lovely one, and I'm so sorry to hear about Fred and Beau. Sending you love and hugs from South Australia.
So nice that yu could set up the computer and thAt yu like it! what kind is it?-- Lynda
DeleteHugs sent to you! Congratulations on the weight loss! Maybe play the piano today!?! One day at a time. Sometimes it’s one step forward and two steps back. Growing older certainly can be difficult but better than the alternative! 😘
ReplyDeleteYes, that fine balance . . . loving food, but watching our waistlines! BUT you have done well releasing those pounds! Keep it up.
ReplyDeleteOh goodness. Sorry to hear that DH had a bad day. **SIGH** ((HUGS))
Yes, for sure, I can see that the time is coming for Himself to have someone w/him if you have to go out so everyone is safe. **SIGH** Hard choice to make, but . . . I think you’re right.
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I do believe I will have to have a sitter sooner than later for Himself-=-Lynda
DeleteI'm so sorry that himself is just not himself some days. Poor Beau, I'm sure he doesn't understand what's happening. You have a lot to handle but you are doing it with such love and grace! I so admire you. I saw your pussy willow on Facebook - what a lovely sign of Spring. Today we're in the low 30's with rain and snow falling - yuck!
ReplyDeleteLynda, you & Fred are always in my thoughts. My 92 year old sister has mild dementia and she is as sweet as can be, always has been. She is just super forgetful so far. I'm so sorry that Fred hit Beau with his cane, that is definitely not like him. You'll have to be careful yourself.
ReplyDeleteI love pussy willows and will Google to get some pictures of them.
Love & Hugs to you, Fred, Beau, Sushi and Lopez xoxo
Awwww Gloria---I know you understand white I am going thru--To-day he tis good--- Yesterday I don't think he took his pill-- That little pill is the difference between night and day--Lynda
DeleteAwesome weight-loss! Woohoo! Awwww, poor Beau. Such is life with someone with dementia. You never know what they will do.
ReplyDeletePatricia---= to-day he tis good--back to himself--Yesterday was not a good day-- Lynda
DeleteGood luck with the weight loss, anxiety can help, too. Has anyone looked into where you all go next yet? You can’t talk reason into someone with dementia . They are like a toddler, will strike at anything that bugs them…You may be next. Prepare now. Sorry for you having to undertake this all alone. Stay safe.
ReplyDeleteI do realize this-- but--I am so much bigger than poor Himself is-- I know this will get progressively worse --Lynda
DeleteThere are good days and bad days and poor Fred was having a heck of a bad day. Hope tomorrow is better for him and for you.
ReplyDeleteToday is better ---I think he didn't get his meds yesterday--He would never ever take them if I didn't kind sneak them in him--but, yu know, when he takes this wee tiny pill, he is right back to himself again-=-Amazing!--Lynda
DeleteI really need to catch up. I lost my wifi for what seemed forever. I will go back to the last blog I remember and do a couple a day 'til I catch up.
ReplyDeleteAt one time, I would have taken the cane, hit Himself with it (as hard as he hit my dog) and said, "How do YOU like it?" I wouldn't do that now, so I guess I have progressed. Hopefully, he felt some remorse afterward.
We have snow here today! No accumulation, but it is till a pain for those who travel by foot, bike, or their feet!
We just gotta hold in a bit longer. Maybe nicer weather and getting outside unencumbered will help Himself feel better. {{{HUGS}}}
He knows now that what he dis is unacceptable-- andbyes, we need SPRING_-Lynda
DeleteI love playing the piano-- It takes me miss Tess tho-- She loved the music--Lynda
ReplyDeletePoor Beau. I hope he is alright and gets over it. You'll have to be careful - it could be you next. Please make sure he gets his meds which may be tough if he doesn't want to. Congrats on the weight loss. Try to stay positive and take care of yourself.
ReplyDeleteI dont think he took the meds yesterday-- To-day he is better--It is a terrible disease-Lynda
DeleteThis is a terrible disease for have to deal with. Many hugs for you and much patience be given to you. So difficult for caregivers.
ReplyDeleteYou're getting good advice from everyone, nothing for me to add, for sure. Poor Beau... he doesn't understand at all. It's just a horrible thing to be living through. I'm several years younger than you are and already I'm *thinking* about down-sizing. It just sounds like so much work, and you're right, finding something to replace the "old homestead" at an affordable rate is not easy!
ReplyDeleteWishing you all the luck in finding that balance! (( hugs ))
Oh poor Beau..........he must be so confused as to why Himself hit him.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry Lynda....Beau does not understand and neither does Himself.
I feel for you. It will be even more difficult to downsize on the house with Himself in the shape he is, changing things might make it
even worse..........