Saturday, September 16, 2023

Being a nice person can be hard because.....


 It is Saturday and so far , it is a good day---so much better than yesterday--both dogs have been out with good results --It isn't too cold--no rain-- Himself told me this morning that he took a 292 AND a Naprasin (sp?)  --pills yesterday-- Maybe both pills mixed him up----  and why did he take them?---He is so much better to-day--SO FAR---- One never knows  --things can change  quickly--
--Yes, I do love gardening--If I had the time, I'd spend ALL day, EVERYDAY--in the garden---and that includes the grass-- feeding the grass--weeding and cutting--It my little bit of Heaven--

It seems , so far, like a good day to have a good day--no groceries to get to-day--- and if I''m lucky, I may even get to cut the lake side of the house----(but then I'll  be "drop dead tired" for sure-------) 

Can yu believe it?---  Himself is vacuuming the main level--?---He is so normal to-day---It is the strangest thing--this what-ever he has-- I call it "Old Timers"--and, incidentally, he has agreed to go the Lodge from now on, both Monday mornings, and Friday mornings--Last evening  I got him to agree to that-- so, we shall see what we shall see----Lord love a Duck! ---

"It is by choice, not by chance, that we grow into better humans"------ himself  finally chooses 2 mornings rather than a whole day , at the Lodge--(with some tough persuasion on my part!)

Make to-day the best----  the very best day  of the week--Everyday can be that you know! --Try not to be so serious----acting a tad crazy helps --dance to the music--- kiss someone for no reason-- and above all, try to be a nice person--

---------This made me laugh---  You have to be nice to the multitudes-----for sure!--LOLOL





15 comments:

  1. Glad to hear that he is better today than yesterday. You may have to consider putting the drugs out of his sight. . . .you never know how much he took or would take. The gardens are my happy place too but a lot of work as I spend today putting away some of the harvest. Good news about the lodge daycare . . . maybe you can use that time to grocery shop without having to worry about himself being alone with the Lopez. We are having a rainy windy day from the effects of Hurricane Lee in NH.

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    1. Yu know my brother lives in New Hampshire --and his wife and daughter--have to look up the name of the town-I always want to spend more time on the garden--There is never enough time in a day is there? Yu got those winds from hurricane Lee eh?---Sunny and quite nice to-day-- Lynda

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  2. Lynda, your last couple memes were hilarious and the first one the best!
    So happy Himself is better. He monitors his own medicine? Maybe he did take too much or the wrong combo.
    Gardening? I'd do it if I could, but in an apartment now, it's harder. Don't really even have a place to put house plants...not enough sun, Lucky would eat them, etc. Would love to have at least an aloe.
    We're having a bbq party this afternoon. Pulled bbq pork sandwiches, etc. I'm bringing my favorite fruit salad.
    Bought a tooth brushing kit with tuna flavored tooth paste for Lucky. Put a bit of the stuff on my finger for him to smell and lick off. He didn't like it! Well, it's made by Arm & Hammer...baking soda in it. That's probably too salty. It was the only one they had at our pet store.
    Did some Sadie work already. She helps a lot, doesn't she?
    A bit cooler here with a mix of sun and clouds. It rained overnight.
    All for now. More stuff to do. Always, huh? Maybe tomorrow we can chill...relax, nap, read, listen to or play music on the piano. Gosh, I'd love to hear you play.
    Wishing you a stress free day, lotsa joy and {{{HUGS}}}

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    1. Your building has a lot of activities --so nice! --Yers Sadie works 24/7 here-- a strong Lady--(LOL) I hope that your BBQ went well--- I did get the grass cut--Lordy --terrible job-Lynda

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  3. It's Kathy. I totally agree with the last little girl, and yes, it surely made me laugh. I'm glad to hear that himself is more like himself today AND that he's agreed to go to the center on Monday and Friday mornings. That gives you a better break and I think it will also improve his own mental well being. I am also having a better day today than yesterday. I went to the gym for my Pilates class which I love (even though my body isn't very happy to cooperate with me) and after I had a Stretch session with my trainer. Made my whole body feel better and certainly took away the back pain. We have a nice day here too! A win all the way around. Enjoy your day!

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    1. Good that you are having a good day--We need that-- Lynda

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  4. Thank goodness Himself told you he is taking pills on his own, oh my, he could overdo, and no one would know. Going to the Lodge half a day is all he can handle, sort of like Kindergarten, can’t sit in class all day, too much stress. That will be nice for him to do that willingly though. Stress is a real bummer, poor Lynda!!

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    1. crappy day when he goes "off the deep end"-and yu never know when that is going to happen--perfectly normal today-Lynda

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  5. Glad today is a better day for you. Yes, gardening is a GREAT thing to do and it is so rewarding.

    Wow!!!! Himself will go to the Lodge on Mondays and Fridays. That’s awesome. It will be great for both of you.

    Ohhhhh, you are sooooo right w/that mee . . . . being nice is hard w/so many stupids around! UGH! Just thank Goodness we are NOT one of them.

    HUGS and have a good weekend.

    Hugs
    Barb
    1crazydog

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    1. LOL--NO--Definitely we are extremely smart Ladies--LOLOL_---Hope your day went well--Lynda

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  6. Your memes today are cute. Really glad himself has agreed to go to the Lodge twice next week. Gives you time to get things done too. And glad today is a much better day. Gardening is not something for me - I have black thumbs not green!!! Have a great evening. Brenda

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    1. Oh Brenda--- I sorted out shoes today also--Why on earth do we have so many shoes eh??-- Lynda

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  7. OMG I laughed so hard about wanting to be nice but so many stupid people around...LOL. just so I'm not one of the stupid ones..lol
    Happy to hear himself is BACK today. I'd be concerned with him medicating himself. ...how much and what.
    Loved all your inserts.
    Cloudy and still cool in St.Louis. Great sleeping and having windows open..
    Gardening is great therapy. I'm not able to have a garden or flowers aside from.a pot on the porch...villa rules. I used to enjoy messing with my flowers and grass cutting at the other house. I only had 1/3 of an acre...nothing like you mow.
    Yippee DH says he will go to Lodge next week. Sure hope so. Great opportunity for you to go to store or do something you enjoy.
    Enjoy your day. Keep smiling. Stay strong and positive.
    Hugs

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    1. Oh Margene-- I thought that was so funny also--about the stupid people--but wondered if it would upset people-- but--decided to put it in --- so happy it made yu LOL---- Yes--Well I kinda told himself anout the Lodges rules--about going a minimum of 2 half days--or one full day-- (I made it up)--so he ,made the decision---2 half days--What a gal had to do eh??-always good to hear from yu--Lynda-

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  8. Today was Davids' birthday...he would have been 75 if he'd made it.
    Sigh.............
    Glad Himself is feeling well today. It sure makes it easier on you.
    Does he do his meds himself or do you put them out in a carrier for him? I always did Davids' because he would not worry if he missed....

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