My reason to-day to smile is---IT"S NOT SNOWING! ---- Holy Cow! --And it is at around zero--- WITH SUN!-I mean, yu really cannot ask for more-----
So, I am late posting --because---- I was de-cluttering the kitchen-- We have been in this house since '87---We have raised 5 children and countless dogs here-- We have educated these children---And, we have seem many Grandchildren playing here--- colouring-- sleeping in a crib in a spare room-- playing Lego-- playing with huge toy trucks----swimming at the dock--paddling Kayaks to "Hawaian Heat" Island, across the bay-- (They named that island)-- camping overnight, on some island in this lake, probably drinking with their friends and returning back here looking just "done in"--------going away to school and some returning from that school and living with us as an adult child, and getting a job--figuring out their life as an adult, and once again, returning to a university AND GRADUATING AND GETTING WORK---I always enjoyed the metamorphosis of a child to an adult, and once again returning to live with us-----
The result of those years is now our home is too large ---- memories are good---but--- we need to spend the rest of our life , in a smaller place---- and finding homes for all the "STUFF" a large family leaves behind-- So, this morning, I de-cluttered the kitchen--- There is more to do, but at least a carful was taken to town and who knows where it will end up--I thought I would miss all the "STUFF" --but--you know what--- I don't miss it at all---- so far! --In fact, the kitchen looks so much better!
No snow and 0....thats a good day up there. Loved all your inserts.
ReplyDeleteYes, as a mom we do say those things. Glad you're making a start on purging. Big house with LOTS to purge. You will NOT miss the stuff you donated..honestly you will not. Im excited for the opportunity for you to find a smaller place in town. Keep plugging away with pitching..it feels good.
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I am not missing what the Lady took to-day--The kitchen looks a lot better---- Its a tough job isn't it?--Lynda
DeleteThe snow is done here too for today . . . all cleaned up and ready for some tonight and again on Saturday but the sun is out today and it makes me happy. I remember when we sold our house in Vermont we told all the kids they had to come get their stuff or we were going to get rid of it . . .and they did amazingly enough. I took a car load every week to the Goodwill for donation until we moved. . . .so much stuff over the years. I don't miss it. We know have the things we really like or need. Congrats on making a start at such a big job. If the kids have stuff there tell them to come and get it.
ReplyDeleteYes I understand-a carload a week-- I always hate to part with the "stuff" but when it is gone I do not miss it--Lordy Be--I hear we may get snow to-nite-- --Oh no!!! -- Anyway it sure is a mild day out there to-day-Lynda
DeleteGlad that you are not having more snow and it is around zero C!
ReplyDeleteIt is good to get started on decluttering. It all helps. Yes, so many memories in a house! But those memories will never leave you, no matter WHERE you live.
Yes, happy March 1st! Astrologic Spring. I’m ready!
OHhhhhh man, do I remember the “Wait till your Father comes home”. Strikes ‘terror’ in the hearts of kids everywhere. And my Mom was famous for the “your face is going to freeze like that”. BWAHAHAHA. And of course, the ever popular “because I said so”. Mom was a huge fan of that one.
Have you found someplace for you and Himself???
Good luck and treasure those memories.
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Barb
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No we have not found a house yet-- We need "small"-- preferably one story--with a basement--AND a Yard-- Hrd got do all this Barb-- Lynda
DeleteI am currently knee deep in packing boxes, a mess everywhere, with the movers scheduled for next week. Lynda, I’d be lying if I said it’s easy to move…it’s been so much work…I cannot tell you how many times I’ve been to Goodwill with a carload of donations in the past weeks. I just keep thinking that it will all get done AND I know it’ll be worth it. Good luck in finding a place and keep decluttering…you won’t be sorry! ❤️
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Already it all seems over whelming-- Do you have a house picked out?-- That is a problem here-Lynda
DeleteIt's warmer here, too! Everything slowly melting. It was windy when I went out earlier, but that's died down. No sun...but we were supposed to get snow last night and didn't!
ReplyDeleteLove the stuff about what mom said. Told my kids lots of that, too. Several years ago I had an inspiring thought to write a book, "Mommy says..." When I researched I found that it had already been written!
Another thing my mom would say when I didn't want to go out in the rain was, "What? Are you so sweet you'd melt?" She taught me a great lesson in junior high when I came home to say my friends didn't like me anymore (remember how an uneven group of girls used to kinda gang up on one of them?) She told me, "Honey, if you want to have a friend, you've got to be a friend."
Good luck on your house hunt. Would you consider moving just outside your preferred area to have more options? I know you'd rather stay in town with the venues you are used to having and family close by.
At least we know spring is coming now! {{{HUGS}}}
Yes, I would consider moving out of the area I prefer-- It really depends on the house-Lynda
DeleteWell at least you've started decluttering. But with raising 5 kids there and at the time you have been there, I'm sure it will take a lot of time to get it all done. And hopefully you don't get a lot of snow to also look after! We're supposed to get another big one Friday night and I'm not sure how far north it's going. I hope you don't get it. Good luck with house hunting now that you've started getting rid of stuff - not a fun job.
ReplyDeleteBrenda -- It will be hard-and so far we do not know where we are going-=-== Lynda
DeleteAfter my dad passed my mom moved in and now there's lots of stuff. I started de-cluttering finally. There's many things that we both have and we only need one of especially in the kitchen. It feels good clearing things out.
ReplyDeleteYes I can see where yu would have to get rid of stuff-- Its hard tho-Lynda
DeleteI live in a 1400 sq ft 4 bedroom house where I raised my 3 kids.The small house kept me from accumulating too much, but I’m still finding things stashed in nooks and crannies that I can throw out. Can’t imagine cleaning out a house as big as yours!
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