I blog because I always feel that Women do so much--more as we age-- We raised children--And we don't ask for any thanks really---It is just expected of us--and we are so proud of our grown families--- then our parents need us--and we try to be there for them---and now our husbands-- and we do the best we are able , again, without expecting a reward-because we love them all--and the various stages of life.
We are strong women, because we have to be---
I guess we must be thankful that we are not a cow-----Life could always be worse, I suppose----The sun is out, I have a working lawn mower--- I don't believe that I am sick--Himself is not aware that he needs care-- (but I do tell him this)--- and I know I am doing the very best I can to keep my mouth shut many a day-----SO----another day is here and I have talked to you all, and that makes it even a better day than yesterday--
We are strong women, because we have to be---
Yes, I guess yesterday , I can put it up to "Life Renovation" for sure and we all need that , at times-
I am glad to see your blog this morning . . .I was starting worry after no blog yesterday. I try and read it everyday but only comment once in awhile as I know you have so many followers. New Hampshire is starting to really look like Summer is coming. I have so much garden work to do now that the snow is finally gone for good. Keep your chin up you are doing a great job no matter what himself thinks today or anyday.
ReplyDeleteHoly Cow!! S0 happy to see yu on here--happy you said "hello"--Yes "STUFF" happened yesterday--rare that it does, and happy to see a new day here--Enjoy your day-- and be a strong person--Lynda --- Did I tell yu that my brother Wayne Wallace lives in New Hampshire?--
DeleteHappy National Bring Flowers to Someone Day! Sending flowers and hugs from Ohio! Enjoy your new day, Lynda! Hope it’s a wonderful Wednesday!
ReplyDeleteOh ---hhhh--The flowers are beautiful! Thank you SO SO much!Lynda
DeleteYou ARE so so welcome! LOL
DeleteIt's Kathy. So glad to open your blog today and find you here. I'll admit, I was a bit worried. Yes, it does seem that as we women get older we just have more and more responsibilities. I had that talk with my own husband, who is 4 years younger than me. Here I am with in pain every single day and yet I'm the one outside trying to repair the lawn, weed the gardens, plant grass seed, etc. All the while also trying to keep the house clean and make sure we have food to eat. My husband is on anti-anxiety medication and just recently he started taking blood pressure meds (which is so strange because he always had really LOW blood pressure). He tells me yesterday that the mixture of the 2 meds are making him lethargic! I say "see your doctor and get on different BP medication". So I really relate to what you had to say today. Yes, usually I try to hold my tongue but it all just spilled out yesterday! Here's hoping we both had a good day today!!!
ReplyDeleteKathy all is good to-day-- He gets just plain mean you know--so unlike the "real" him---AND--I certainly understand when you say "it all spilled out"-----At least you can tell him something--Fred cannot hear--LOL--so--- today is another day-- the workmen were here fixing a wall down by the docks-- Ill send pictures to-morrow--Lynda
DeleteMarti here. I was getting worried, too! Can you not just go elsewhere in the house and stay away from him when he's "that way?" That's what I would do, anyway, unless he needs you for things or something. Limit your exposure to him.
DeleteYes, there are days like that! And I don't have nearly the reasons you do... just a puppy who is going through puppy things! But you know, the struggles are what make life rich, and in contrast the good times seem extra good, don't they?
ReplyDeleteWishing you the kindest of days, to make up for the ones that are "horrid". You are worth it, you are strong, brave, and beautiful, my friend.
Awwwww Barb--some days (there are not many tho--yet)--I wonder how much longer I can watch over this "HOLY" man-- but to-day is a good day---Praise be to God! Lynda
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ReplyDeleteHappy to see your blog today, sis.
ReplyDeleteIt's hard to hold back your comments to those who frustrate you! You don't have to do it to your 'person' though, cuz you can do it here!
I don't believe I'd trust anyone who didn't love cows...or animals in general! Dogs know. When a dog meets someone, you can tell be their reaction Cats are similar if they are like Lucky. Some neighbors come to visit and he interacts with them. When certain others come...he just ignores them just stays by me in a protective mode.
We all have days that we feel like tearing our hair out...or punching someone (do it on a pillow). I know that feeling. That's when it's harder to find the positive side of our situation.
I take it Himself and Yourself have already got the results of his procedure. I'm only asking cuz with some tests, etc. it takes a couple days.
I have my GI appointment online tomorrow. Sometime tomorrow they will be inspecting my apartment (I feel like I'm still in the Army!). Just checking to see if windows drawers, closet doors are working, testing smoke detectors, seeing if there's excess clutter, pet messes, evidence of smoking, etc. I informed the manager of the time I will be having my appointment online. Sure hope they don't come then!
Gotta go clean (again) kitty throw up spots that didn't come completely out the first time I cleaned them. {{{HUGS}}} Love, Maggie
Maggie--=I think getting Fred home from that scope was just too much-- yesterday--then there was the lawn mower---but--all turned out ion the end----No--no results yet from that scope--hoping all is OK tho--He seems OK today--Gosh almighty --Why on earth do they inspect yer apartment?--That isn't very nice-- All is well today and a lovely day here--The black flies re out tho-- Lotza love --=Lynda
DeleteHoping today is a better day, that your health does not suffer from the trials of 'holding it all together'. We love you! We appreciate everything you do! We are the women who care! You are the caringest!
ReplyDeleteDeb-- Good day to you! Nice to see yu--Yes I kinda caved in yesterday--It was Fred's scope I think that wore me out and he was the one who had it--not me--LOL-- Enjoy seeing yu on here-Lynda
DeleteGlad to hear from you…I was worried. I hope today was better for Fred…AND you! Today is our #49 Anniversary…where did the years go?? Poof….so all we have is this day to make the best of…just as you strive to do every day! Sending love and hugs your way! Karen (Eissa7)
ReplyDeleteKaren--amazing --49 yrs of wedded bliss-- See?--You ARE strong!--Lynda
DeleteHi Lynda: Was glad to see you blog today. I was worried yesterday. Hope all is going better today. You really need someone to help you with everything so that is doesn't all fall on your shoulders. Hope you have a peaceful evening. Hugs Brenda
ReplyDeleteHi Brenda -- It was a difficult day yesterday--had workmen out here today fixing dock area Lynda--
DeleteGood to see your blog today. You were missed yesterday -- I always read but rarely comment. (((HUGS))).
ReplyDeletePHOENIX1949, Susan, Central Texas
Hi Lynda, loved the insert about not hitting or biting anyone, being a lucky ducky and life renovations. I liked ALL the inserts! All of life's passages/seasons have challenges...i think more so for women. And, YES, behind a crazy woman is a man who caused it lol. You got it! I can so relate to your frustrations of caring for a spouse. I cared for parents and kids lol and I'm still the caretaker along with the "do it all". Most days it's fine but some days I want to run away lol
ReplyDeleteI'm glad to hear that today is going better. I tell myself, things can always be worse and I count my blessings that I'm able to "do it all".
YOU are an amazing, strong, loving, kind, beautiful woman. Remember that and scream if it helps lol. My mantra is "this too shall pass".
Retirement may not be as we'd hoped but it's still a good life. Caring for others is a blessing...except when I feel like biting or hitting lol.
Stay positive, hang onto the good memories and make today a GOOD one.
With hugs, love, respect, admiration and a lot of understanding.
PS I'm giving you extra credit for keeping your mouth shut...
Marge/St.Louis
Whew. So glad that you are back here. Was worried about yesterday’s missing blog.
ReplyDeleteRetirement is not the golden years. Yet, it is better that the alternative.
Sending hugs, prayers, and positives vibes your way. We all deserve a “Me Moment”. Even “me days”. Life is not easy, but you got this!🩷
Jacquie
Jacquie--I survived yesterday-- but "just"-I-- would've written terrible things---but--today is different=Hard to see all this--- -- Nice to see yu to-day-Lynda
DeleteOh I am not sure if I like the Dr. Seuss poem or the renovation analogy better. Fantastic.
ReplyDeleteThat said, I am yesterday was so challenging and hope that things get a little smoother. It's hard when Himself really doesn't comprehend what he's saying and doing. it is very hard for you and him.
Sending hugs and peace
barb
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No Barb--yesterday is over--=happy for that! And to-day he was SO SO much better---It's hard to get old isn't it?--He can't hear-He can't walk very far--is not steady on his feet---but --he even is angry coz I can do all he cannot do--not fair--(but he just cannot get so mean!)-Lordy Be!!--Lynda
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