Tuesday, August 29, 2023

Not easy dealing with a different person-


-- I am late posting as Himself has not been too well to-day----his anger has been so hard for me , to-day to deal with-- Hopefully  he will be better  a the day progresses---Lynda

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  1. It's Kathy. So sorry your day has not started out well. I do hope himself feels better soon and the anger stops. I know this must be so very hard on you! Thoughts and prayers are with you!

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    1. Oh Kathy--- so hard eh--- He really needs help --- I am trying to get help too to deal with him-- Lynda

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  2. RASOCKS (kimberley)August 29, 2023 at 1:42 PM

    Oh Lynda. I'm so sorry to hear that today has been particularly difficult. You are so strong - I respect and admire you so much. Your this too shall pass attitude will no doubt keep you marching to your own beat through the trials and tribulations. Please know that you have all of us in your corner, cheering you on and sending you strength! Giant hugs to you!!

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    1. Thank you so much--- He needs help-=-LOL--Me too-Lynda

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  3. Hi Lynda, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Hoping attitudes, behaviors get better as the day progresses. Remember, this too shall pass. Get outside, play your piano, or do something you enjoy so you don't engage in the anger.
    Hugs dear lady

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    1. difficult day--Maybe I will finally accept that there is a big problem---Everything happens for a reasonLynda

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  4. HUGS, PHOENIX1949

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    1. Thank yu--=whatta terrible disease-Lynda

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  5. I’m so sorry he is acting out and upsetting you! Hope the day is getting better. Hugs from Ohio!

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    1. Thank yu--- so much-- hard day to go thru--- better to-nite-Lynda

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    2. Nice to hear, Lynda!

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  6. (( hugs )) I do hope things improve over the course of the day.

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    1. Barb--- hard day--but improving-- LOL--Finally-- but--I do need help from somewhere-Lynda

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  7. Oh, Lynda...you have my heartfelt sympathy! Sending prayers, light and love. Love that meme, too.
    Hopefully your blog tomorrow will be more explainitive and you both will feel better.
    At least it's a beautiful day here. {{{HUGS}}}

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  8. My thoughts are with you the hope that things get better as the day goes on. Take care. HUGS

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    1. hard day --hard to accept all the abuse-- Hopefully I can get some help-Lynda

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  9. So hard to go through with this hell, hope you are videoing it, so, if something happens, there is proof for the naysayers to see. Be careful, dear.

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    1. Its so hard to go thru this---to accept what is in front of my face--I do need some kind of help-Lynda

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  10. Kept checking earlier and was worried when you hadn't posted. The is no rhyme or reason to the behaviour, He was so happy yesterday at the Lodge! Hopefully the day has got better. Please try to record some of these sessions so others will believe what is going on. Try to relax and play your piano! Hugs Brenda

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  11. Thank yu Brenda--very difficult day here -so hard to understand how a normal good person can do all that happened to-day--trying to get a Dr to help me out--he os better now--butI am shook up -- I'm OK tho--just wish I had more help-Lynda

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    1. Please see if doctor can make some referrals for you and also give some meds for himself. And see if the alzheimers society can provide more help.

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  12. This is Gaelyne. Just wanted to send you love and hugs. This is so heartbreaking.

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    1. Gaelyne --FINALLY I am accepting that this is a huge problem and he needs meds=-=-I turned the meds down 2 yrs ago--big mistake--== he is most unhappy--angry--- and blames everything on me--sad =-=so sad ---i am trying to get help for him--but--it takes time I guess-Lynda-Thanks for writing Lynda

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    2. I hate it that you are going through this! So hard! Not good for your health either! Yes, you definitely need some help. We all do at some point. You are in my thoughts and prayers!

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  13. Sending hugs and prayers. Everyone has given you some great advice. I hope and pray that you get the help that you need, sooner than later.

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  14. I am so sorry that you are having to deal with Himself's anger. **SIGH** I sure hope that it lightened up a bit as the day went on. IN the meantime, many hugs and many prayers.

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    barb
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