"I Wish You in Halifax"---I remember her telling me that when I cut up her knitting books to make paper cutouts-- (Ive told yu that before--probably because I never ever forgot her saying that--I felt SO bad!)---I was about 7 yrs old--should have known better---- too, I remember dancing to some music on the beach in Port Stanley, ON., and I remember my Mom laughing at me--told me I was fat-- (I was probably a tad pudgy and remained that way till recently)
How I ever got into all this, I'll never know--- I do know however, that when Mom and Dad were living in Florida and decided in their older ages that they needed to be near all of us 5 grown kids, they decided to move here to our tiny city in the North-- and it was me who flew down to fly back with Mom, and I drove them here----I never really got to to speak to my Mom very well as she passed after 5 mos. of living here in our town--- but-- Dad and I developed quite an amazing relationship--and thru him, I learned a lot about their lives and marriage--He was totally devoted to Mom!
. --Funny how you believe things , as a kid-- ---I don't believe parents ever think of what is going thru their child's head--- They are so busy with their lives-- It takes time to have meaningful deep chats--
Now isn't that so true too?-- We try our best---That is the best we can do!---Do you tell your grown children , everyday that they are special?----that you love them?-- I don't -because I am so busy trying to get thru all the daly chores!-----but----I think I will try harder to say those 3 words-"I LOVE YOU!--at least for to-day--Lord love a Duck eh?-- Heavy thoughts--
Son #2, the Air Canada Pilot begins his journey back to Toronto to-night--He sent a few more pictures of food-- This guy really appreciates good food--LOL--Here is Coconut shrimp-----Looks so good!--- Remember-if you are flying anywhere-- maybe present the Pilot with a coffee!--*S*
Just got home from our vacation to PA and Kentucky. Haven't read through all the blogs I missed but I wanted to stop by and say Hi . . . I missed reading your blog everyday.
ReplyDeleteWow! --Well, welcome home--and I am so happy that you are reading "The Daily Blog"--LOLOL-- Love yu-Lynda
DeleteI think there's not enough time to maturely sit down to speak to all the people we care about. When we are ready to do so due to a series of circumstances we had to overcome, they usually are already gone. A pity. I wish I could go back and have a long serious talk with my grandparents from both sides I didn't really knew. Have a nice day!
ReplyDeleteI wish I really knew my Grandparents also-- I remember them-- but I'd love now got ask them so many questions--and it's too late-- Now if you were to blog, you Grandkids would learn about you-- Did you ever think of that?--Lynda
DeleteIt's funny about weight, Lynda. I was thin until I hit my 50's and then seemed to gain yearly!
ReplyDeleteI love shrimp but have never had coconut shrimp - can't seem to wrap my mind around the combo of shrimp/coconut. Does the coconut taste come through strong?
As for parents, I don't believe they have any idea of how their words can impact their children and last throughout their lives. My mom only had negative things to say to me and those words still are remembered!
Love & Hugs coming to you, Fred and your furry companions xoxo
Coconut shrimp is so good Gloria! --- yea, the coconut adds to the shrimp-- takes away the "fishy " taste-
DeleteYour Mom sounds like my Mom-- Mom had 5 children--I believe she was just too busy--She taught school too-but I sorta always thought she didn't really like me--and Dad made up for it (which she didn't like either)_Yo know--I never remember talking to Mom until she was on her death bed-- then I was the one who was with her--Life is weird eh? Lynda
I wish that I could go back and have some extra time with my brother who passed at 36 my dad at 66 and my mom at 92. As you go through life you think of your family always being there and that you will have lots of time to talk. Thank goodness for the time and talks we did have. It is a great day to tell family that you love them. Enjoy!
ReplyDeleteIt is very hard to lose your brothers and sisters--WE never imagine that when we are young-- -Yes, "LOVE" is very important-Thanks for sharing-Lynda
DeleteThat is an awful teacher story, Lynda ! Wow, and I remember teachers saying that, especially girls to be failing. The boys were constantly regaled to sit down, sit down, when still very young. Gals had to act like young ladies, always, don’t make waves! The fat statements are cruel, no matter who says them.
ReplyDeleteI guess life was different then--- Good to hear from yu all that my life was not too different from all of you Lynda
DeleteOh Barb--Yourl life was so much like mine--even down to the Perms-- terrible teachers to all yu AND your children all that--AND YOU BECAME A NURSE --I enjoyed reading your comments so much--Thank yu for sharing!-Lynda
ReplyDeleteWhen I was 6 or 7, my mom cut my hair. Looking in the mirror, I cried, "I look just like a shaggy little boy!" Then she gave me a Toni (or was it Tonnette?) perm. When I went to school the next day, my 1st grade teacher told me how beautiful I looked! Made me feel ok with it.
ReplyDeleteGreat photos once again: You with sibs as a child and coconut shrimp! I used to get a brand of them (Margaritaville) and make them while I was still in Chicago.]\
Always told my kids I loved them when they were younger. Tried to make them feel worthwhile, etc. If they got a poor grade on an exam, I asked if they did their best. If they said they did, then I would say you'll do better the next time.
Nowadays, my daughter is near by and hears it more. My sons are scattered. It's harder to contact them. I always send mushy birthday cards, though.
Rainy here today. Not too cold, though.
You pat Sushi and I will pet my Lucky. Will be meditating soon. When I do that, he curls up on my lap and purrs. So sweet. Purring cats have been proven to lower a person's blood pressure! {{{HUGS}}}
Such interesting tales yu tell!-- Funny how we all got the same perms!-Lucky sounds like a wonderful "soul"--- and good info how a cat's purring soothes the soul! --- --Hugs to yu--- Lynda
DeleteShrimp looks really good. Love shrimp but never had with coconut. I remember those Toni perms too. Hated them. Have a good evening.
ReplyDeleteSorry I am behind posting LYNDA, hubs has been in hospital 4 days and then in rehab for 12 more days, so I have not been home to read or post. Love the food pics tho, #2 has quite the varied menu....
ReplyDeleteI remember those Afful perms. I also remember mom thought I was overweight so I grew up to be an overweight woman. Thanks to spark I learned how to eat and maintain a healthy lifestyle.
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